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Designing one's life

 
 
coberst
 
Reply Thu 28 Sep, 2006 04:04 am
Designing one's life

"The development of general ability for independent thinking and judgment should always be placed foremost, not the acquisition of specialized knowledge." --Albert Einstein

Our (US) society is not generally tuned to agree with Albert's opinion. We generally consider education is a commodity, an object of commerce; generally our schools, colleges, and universities prepare us in a specific specialty so that we can fit directly into the cogs of the industrial machine when we graduate.

The "development of general ability for independent thinking and judgment" must come after our school days are complete. If we do not begin this process of preparation for independent thinking quickly after schooling it is quite likely we will never acquire the judgment required of an independent critical thinker.

There is good reason to consider our first priority is to acquire the certificates necessary for a good job and then to focus our attention upon taking control of our life following our graduation.

There is a significant difference between life as it is typically lived and life as it could be. This difference can be lived provided one does not give into a passive role and develops an active roll in determining her or his future.

The passive learner rolls with the punches; s/he establishes habits that ?'work', which allow him or her to ?'get by'. The passive learner seeks to integrate her or him self into the status quo.

Our technology makes a passive life seducing. The following two paragraphs are from a recent article in the Washington Post written by a reporter who had rented a car with a GPS guidance system.

Again and again, I turned off the calculated route ?- following my nose across country ?- and the G.P.S. patiently rearranged its plans. Now and then I heard it say, "Make a legal U-turn at the first opportunity," and I wondered if I was hearing a sigh of defeat in its crisp, female voice. I set out one morning for a nearly vanished Kansas town. "You have arrived!" said the G.P.S., without irony, as we drove down the tumbleweed streets of our destination.

We fought only once, in Emporia. We were leaving the surface road and picking up the Kansas Turnpike. The instructions I heard flatly contradicted my sense of where we were, so I ignored them and found myself heading west, toward Salina, instead of northeast, toward Lawrence. It was a humbling experience. I stopped for coffee. When I started the car, the G.P.S. said, "Resume?" Not a hint of told-you-so in its voice. I said yes, and let it lead me home.

The active learner establishes habits directed at constant improvement. I think that many people become active learners directing their efforts at maximizing production and consumption. In fact I guess the American life style is ?'to be the active learner running faster and faster on the industrial tread mill'. The values ingrained in us by our culture ?'tell us' that that is the natural way to accentuate the positive and eliminate the negative. But there is another way to become an active learner and that is by self-actualization through self-learning directed not at becoming a better producer and consumer but upon establishing a broader perspective, by establishing a different value system.

How does a young person who has finished their schooling develop their own value system?

How does a young person develop a sound intellectual foundation upon which to build a life?

What is a sound intellectual foundation?

How does a young person learn to ask the important questions?

How does a young person find the answers to these questions?

How does a young person become an independent thinker when the culture is constantly singing a lullaby for slumber?
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aidan
 
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Reply Fri 29 Sep, 2006 11:39 am
Coberst - I think you ask some really interesting questions here. I didn't look at the dates of your postings - so I don't know if you posted this in concert with your questions about self-actualization and Maslow's heirarchy of needs, etc., but I think that they complement each other as subject matter.

I think the ability or tendency to be an independent thinker is somewhat innate - as the tendency or trait to be more or less curious about things is also somewhat innate. I mention these two characteristics together because I think curiousity or the tendency to challenge accepted thinking is what leads to independent thinking. I think it does take a certain amount of self-esteem or self-confidence to acknowledge that one is not in agreement with the status quo or feels the need to continue on past where the status quo would have stopped to pursue another path to one's own particular form of enlightenment, acceptable thought or self-actualization.

And I think the people who do this are those for whom it means more to be who or what they feel they need to be, than to belong to a group or be accepted as part of the status quo. I think self-actualization is different in that it is easier to achieve when someone has the time to devote to pursuing interests and talents. It's less about innate characteristics and more about outside circumstances that may or may not make it possible to pursue one's interests to fulfillment.

I wish I knew the answer to your questions. It's always very interesting to me to look at young people who are independent thinkers and go against the grain of popular thinking to do what they need or want to do and to look at those who don't, and try to figure out what the difference is. Maybe it's just a matter of desire. I don't know. But I definitely think that our culture today makes it much more of an arduous task that takes a lot more courage than it used to be.
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coberst
 
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Reply Fri 29 Sep, 2006 12:09 pm
Aidan

My interests are directed primarily in attempting to convince adults to fulfill more closely what their potential is. It appears to me that most people lock away their intellect with their yearbook into a trunk in the attic when they graduate from their schooling. Adult potential is not realized as a result.

I think of comprehension as being like a pyramid with awareness at the base, followed by consciousness (awareness plus attention), then comes knowledge with understanding at the pinnacle.

Knowledge is all we need to make it on our job and thus we seldom ever reach understanding. To reach understanding requires a good bit of work beyond knowing and people seldom are motivated to go beyond knowing.

To go beyond knowing requires curiosity and caring. We are born with some degree of curiosity but if that curiosity is not cultivated it dries up and blows away. If a person goes for 20 years after graduation without cultivating their curiosity by engaging their intellect they are unlikely to ever get off their intellectual couch.

This means that the young person, who still has a bit of their curiosity in tact after schooling, must take up some form of intellectual activity beyond their job and day to day living, if not by mid-life there is no curiosity and caring left.
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aidan
 
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Reply Fri 29 Sep, 2006 03:44 pm
I agree, except that I don't think it's ever too late to adopt a more curious and thus more accepting attitude to new information and/or stimulation. I think in their twenties, most people are more attuned to making money and becoming successful in their careers - and somewhere in their late thirties they realize that life might be passing them by and they become attuned to enjoying it - in whatever form that may take. For some people, being open to anything new is stressful, but to others, learning new things becomes a way of life and helps them to feel that they are still alive and viable as human beings.
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spendius
 
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Reply Fri 29 Sep, 2006 05:23 pm
aidan wrote-

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For some people, being open to anything new is stressful, but to others, learning new things becomes a way of life and helps them to feel that they are still alive and viable as human beings.


I just find it unavoidable darling. It has nothing to do with helping me to feel alive and viable as a human being. I take that as a given. It isn't in the least stressful. It's titter fodder.
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aidan
 
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Reply Fri 29 Sep, 2006 10:34 pm
Spendius - don't start...
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JLNobody
 
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Reply Fri 29 Sep, 2006 10:58 pm
"The development of general ability for independent thinking and judgment should always be placed foremost, not the acquisition of specialized knowledge." --Albert Einstein

The first is what we must do for ourselves as individuals, as part of our spiritual function; the latter is what we do for some organizatio (i.e., an employing company), as our social function.
--although there are overlaps in this formulation.

Yes, you typically raise good questions, Coberst.
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