fishin wrote:Eorl wrote:fishin wrote:Eorl wrote:I think people only accept views that are the same as their own, and tolerate other views only to the extent that they are compatible with, and do not conflict with, their own.
(If they accept the other view as possibly valid, then it becomes part of their own view anyway)
I don't see being "tolerant" as something that requires accepting validity. I can be tolerant of someone else's views (i.e. I don't interfere with or crtiticize their practice of...) while still dismissing their beliefs. If someone chooses to believe something and it doesn't negatively impact me there is no reason for me to be concerned with it.
Your first sentence demonstrates that you misunderstand my first sentence. Nothing you have said makes my statement untrue.
If my statement demonstrates that I have misunderstood then apparently you have expressed your point poorly. It seems everyone else got the same impression from it that I got.
Perhaps. If so, I apologize.
I'm can't quite see how to word it more clearly, but I'll try if I can.
Let's keep it simple. One person says "We must pray every night, we must go to church on Sunday, we must never eat meat"
The second person says "I agree we must pray every day (accepted), I didn't think I had to go to Church....but you know what, you're right! (accepted), but I don't really agree with the meat thing....I believe we must we eat meat every day....but to each his own (not accepted but IS tolerated - does not conflict with and is compatible with his own).
Then the first person says, "Well, a god commanded me to prevent people from eating any meat "
Second person will not tolerate this as it conflicts with his own veiw that he must eat meat every day.
A third person says " I am tolerant of both of you, as long as I can eat meat whenever I want."
Person 3 accepts none of the beliefs, and only tolerates those that don't conflict with his.
Is that clearer? I doubt it.