angel1234 wrote:I mean whenI tell my ole man about the forum I say things like Mama said and Toots's ole man. I never refer to you as your real names

I do the same thing, and my g/f looks at me like I'm crazy, which, at this point, I'm sure I am.
They say the true definition of insanity is doing the same thing repeatedly over and over again expecting different results. How many times did I lookfr #44--now I'm just waiting for it to find me.