The walk. Don't need no scripture or to be a christ-lover to tell you that!
Which man should you marry: the one who is a sweet talker and tells you what you want to hear all the time (Confessing his love for you...ohh! how dramatic!) Or
the one who is there consistently yet sometimes says stupid or annoying things (walking the walk - not nearly so dramatic nor easy)
BTW: How in the world does a bible (a book made of paper) command a human being to do anything?
Sure, you want say it is nitpicking, but it goes to show the level of non-thought that can bring some folks to religious 'calling'.
You may believe your God commands these things on the paper.
Or maybe it is Jesus, or Matt or one of the other men doing the commanding of you.
But the Bible is not a Character with a voice, brain, and reproductive system. Just think about it. That is the realm of Cartoon World.
p.s. I think I will have a Veggie Tales Salad tonight
Ya ever see those shows?