Stuh,
I am happy to know that gravity is not a result some sort of interactions between masses and space-time.
If you could tell us what gravity is in much the same way that we would explain inertia for instance. Or temperature, or energy, or wave length, mankind will be forever in your debt.
As far as I am aware the best explanation for gravity is that it is the result of the curvature of space by mass. However this has limitations also and even Einstein wasn't very happy with himself and the explanation.(Probably why he became a socialist :wink: ) Consequently I think it still fair game for speculation!
You see, inertia, practically speaking, is the tendency of a mass to stay put unless one applies energy (or causes) to move it differently from whatever motion it may have. Consequently all orbital motions are straight paths in curved space. Mass curves space---- HOW
Gravity, as a force, is a tendency for mass to continually increase its density. What makes it do this

Some characteristic of matter (or interchangeble energy) is responsible I am sure. What characteristic

I have never found an explanation that isn't a prime example of circular reasoning.
We need an explanation for, not a description of gravity. Got one
There is a laser lab somewhere in Louisiana USA trying to detect gravity waves. I've lost the link somewhere but you may want to try searching
LISA for the gravity lab. Shouldn't be hard to find if you need a bit more confusion on the subject. I'll look a bit harder after I post this. It's an interesting site.