najmelliw wrote:
Quote:By who'se measure can one determine whether something doesn't hurt others?
That is the key point. The freedom to decide is what makes us stronger, or kills us, and sometimes it is neccecary to go all the way down to come up. To deprive someone of this freedom is to deprive them of consequence, and to my mind there really is no worse kind of determinism.
So we should be free to hurt, and throught the pain and the reconciliation we'd gain the deeper knowledge needed to find the path forward. This is true growth, and I believe it would benefit our society greatly to allow every one of it's members the total freedom to pursue this path.