eoe wrote:Do you think it holds true in all cases? Sometimes, I just don't see the connection at all but then there have been a few times that I've seen myself. And it ain't pretty.
I don't think it holds true in all cases. For example, someone who is really loud, laughs too much, is a snitch, a snob, inconsiderate, passive-aggressive etc.
When someone is being profoundly annoying I try to see it from there point of view, this applies a lot to work situations. There's a woman I work with who has been a total brat lately, impossible. But, I know for a fact she's recently been rejected by a guy she likes, and that is a difficult situation for her, so I'm not going to complain about her.
Or the head of my department was particularly surly over a matter that was easily solveable, but he was too pissed off to make constructive decisions about it. I felt bad for him, even though he was being incredibly annoying and stupid. I know I get annoyed over small things and really appreciate it when someone steps in and doesn't judge or react to my behavior, rather they help out, and that lightens the load.