I'm not sure I understand the original question, which I understand the irony, since you are saying Mormons seem 'spaced'. However, I believe you would actually find that most Mormons have a great desire to have higher education, and I don't really see where 'spaced' comes into play. I could understand seeing many as naive, since we do have high moral values and many who grow up in predominantly Mormon areas may not have experience with some people with other values. So naive may be an accurate term for some, but I don't necessarily think that's a bad thing. I didn't grow up in a "Mormon" area though.
Anyway, if you want accurate answers to some of the questions posted here.
www.mormon.org is a great place to visit. As for women being subservient to men, I have NEVER seen an instance of our church encouraging this at all. Yes, men only hold the priesthood, but this is not at all anything to do with subservience. I think you would find most Mormon men to be actively involved as parents and helpers in their homes. Men are always being encouraged to support their wives and help in all aspects. Yes, we do have traditional values and believe it's best when financially feasible, for the Mom to be at home raising the kids, but we also strongly believe in a 50/50 partnership. Mormon women are not at all subservient to their husbands, and do not ask permission for anything, or anything of the sort.
And we are definitely community-oriented. It's true. When we moved here, we called up our local ward (congregation), and we had people here to greet us, help us unpack, etc. And when our last baby was born, we probably had 10 meals brought in to help us out in those first few weeks.
By the way, my experience is definitely as a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of LatterDay Saints. There are other groups that have spun off that may refer to themselves as 'Mormon', and I have NO CLUE what they believe.