@edgarblythe,
The first job I had after leaving the Navy in '73 was at VA. The first thing out of my mouth when I got home was, "no matter what do not let me be put in a VA hospital."
As a kid I knew VA was where one went when there was no where else to go.
A keen memory was when I was 14. My dad had a masonry company and every summer from 12 I was a mason's laboror. A guy that worked for my dad was Turk Turkovich. He was the youngest of six sons and he lived in the basement of his mother's home with the understanding when she died he'd inherit it. One morning we picked Turk up. He came out of the house in cleaned and pressed work clothes and a brand new pair of work boots. He carried a big grocery bag like a giant sack lunch and got in the truck.
We drove north out of Akron towards Cleveland, where most of our jobs were and continued into Cleveland, went East on Lake Shore Drive. It was a quiet drive and nobody talked. I was curious, but we were eating up the work clock, so I kept quiet wondering where we were going. We got off the Drive at what was Wade Park VA (now Carl B. Stokes VA). We turned into the long driveway, lots on either side, up to the circular drop off and stopped, and Turk got out. "Bye", says Turk. "See ya", says my dad. Turk closed the door and the old man pulls out.
About half way back down the drive, passing turn ins for parking, I ask my dad, "don't we need to wait for Turk?"
He said, "Turks not coming home."
Many years later, I lost my Cadillac health insurance because my manager managed to short my hours. Just before I was scheduled for a procedure.
My wife who gets her insurance though her retirement from CIA, recomended I go to VA. I adamantly refused. I heard too many stories, I'd seen 60 Minutes expose in '73.
She got the paper work, fills it out and tells me to sign.
There is no wining an argument, so I decided to shut up and let her see for herself.
Boy has VA changed. If you haven't tried VA since the nineties go again and see for your self. I've only had two primary care physicians and the the first one is still with VA, she now works with Women Vets.
Both doctors have advocated for me. They saved my life. Let me say it again: they saved my life. I've never waited more than a week or so for anything, 90% of the within a week. I've had a Rear Admiral surgeon call me at home after a surgery to be sure it went well.
Texas Va system is very highly rated in the VA system and the fact is, if you don't want to go to one in the Houston area, the one in Temple is great hospital. Or even get to a civilian hospital if the hospital has a connection to VA. And the VA system as a whole was rated #3 in the country for customer satisfaction, Only the Mayo Clinic and another system that escapes my mind were rated better.
Please consider it. I promise you, you will be pleasantly surprised.