Is True Love biblical ? The bible says about finding True Love ?

friend said this.
Romantic love is certainly found in the Bible. Not only is the Song of Solomon about romantic love but so is the love of Jacob for Rachel and his willingness to serve Laban for seven years in order to marry her.
Gen. 29:18 Now Jacob loved Rachel, so he said, ''I will serve you seven years for your younger daughter Rachel. . . 20] So Jacob served seven years for Rachel and they seemed to him but a few days because of his love for her.
So there you have it.

1 Corinthians 13:4-8

4 Love suffers long and is kind; love does not envy; love does not parade itself, is not [a]puffed up; 5 does not behave rudely, does not seek its own, is not provoked, thinks no evil; 6 does not rejoice in iniquity, but rejoices in the truth; 7 bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.

8 Love never fails. But whether there are prophecies, they will fail; whether there are tongues, they will cease; whether there is knowledge, it will vanish away.

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Jesus said, "Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends." John 15:13.

So, what does "lay down his life for his friends" mean? Does one have to die in order to prove their love for someone?

Or, is "laying down our lives" for someone else more sacrificial? A woman has a child, and "lays down her life" for that child, in that she sets aside her 'selfish' desires, and tends to the needs of that child.

A married man may want a new snowblower, but instead uses the money to buy Christmas gifts for his family.

To me, what Jesus did for us...the sacrifice...for ALL of us...was true love.

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I always go back to a common reference in the bible on the subject of love. 1 Corinthians 13.
3 If I speak in the tongues[a] of men or of angels, but do not have love, I am only a resounding gong or a clanging cymbal. 2 If I have the gift of prophecy and can fathom all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have a faith that can move mountains, but do not have love, I am nothing. 3 If I give all I possess to the poor and give over my body to hardship that I may boast, but do not have love, I gain nothing.
4 Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. 5 It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. 6 Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. 7 It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.
8 Love never fails. But where there are prophecies, they will cease; where there are tongues, they will be stilled; where there is knowledge, it will pass away. 9 For we know in part and we prophesy in part, 10 but when completeness comes, what is in part disappears. 11 When I was a child, I talked like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child. When I became a man, I put the ways of childhood behind me. 12 For now we see only a reflection as in a mirror; then we shall see face to face. Now I know in part; then I shall know fully, even as I am fully known.
13 And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love.

Men and women often drop the standard requirements for love in this passage. Even believers. I find the Lord's love flows through me and I sincerely love others.If I love someone I want the best for them which means instead of envy we are happy for them. Instead of being short with them we want to wait to hear what they will say and truly value it or in love rebuke it.
When we really care for someone we are more than willing to forgive them if they offend us. We want no harm for those we love, so we will do protective things to help them.Love is locked into purity because purity is wholesome and fulfilling. We see the damage unwholesome things can do, so we fight against those things. We persevere for those we love and would trade ourselves for them if it means their good. I see so many parents sacrificing this worlds good to put their kids through college. Husbands sacrificing for wives or deferring to their wants over their own and visa versa.
God's love never fails and we are tapped into His love if we follow Him. Here's the clincher. We are to love our enemies. The bible tells us to love our neighbor as ourselves. I once thought this a heavy chore, and I have known some people who were more difficult to love than others.


If I love my enemy, is that person any longer my enemy? Maybe they are unkowingly working for my spiritual enemy, but I begin to see them as a friend , and they really are my friend as I would do anything for them I would do for a friend. I appreciate them . I am looking out for them. They may not reciprocate but true love isn't always based on reciprocation. It feels good if it happens. Most of my earthly friends have at one time or another let me down and I've probably let them down without realizing it. Some friends drift away over time or we become less intimate with them due to life happening.


There is a natural "hook" between men and women where boundaries need to be set.Lines not crossed. This takes wisdom, understanding and self control on both sides of it. Don't put yourself in a situation where you could be tempted to go too far. If you are tempted to get attached to that deeper level, deal with it in the same ways you deal with any other temptation. Pray. Don't feed it.
Our differences can be appreciated without going too far, that is unless you are single and looking for a wife and those emotional hooks might be setting into someone which is a natural series of events if you are serious with them. This love is a romantic love and it's interesting the Lord uses this kind of love to express His love for the us as the "bride". That love is really a soul tie which is what happens when a man marries a woman.
The world replaces sex for love and has all kinds of other incorrect contexts for it.

I'm currently reading Humphry Clinker which was written before the American Revolution and deals with the picaresque travels of Squire Bramble and retinue around Britain.

At one point they meet a Scotsman who,has returned from the colonies and they talk about missionary work amongst the original inhabitants.

They are told it didn't go down well. The missionaries claimed to represent the supreme being, the great spirit, but there was nothing remotely divine about them. Not only that they weakened God by making him into a man who was killed by other men.

As such they were executed for insulting God.

I'm still waiting for my snow blower. I live in Texas, I won't need it ever, but it's the principle of the thing.

"A man's got to know his limitations."

They expected emissaries of the divine to have powers like angels.

I think they had the right attitude.

if those missionaries claim to be emissaries of G*D, they better be prepared to back it in the face of critical observation and practical testing.

If they would be judge bob they will be judge by God not you ;D.

Wrong. We are given the gift of discernment through the agency of the Holy Spirit.

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Love comes from God and he created it, he wanted man and woman in the Eden. there was the first true love and it is where love comes from and the model God wanted for man and women to have. We see he gave commands and love came from Eden. God created love and wanted love to be on Earth. Eden is how he wanted the world and what is the original model of love he wanted man and women is there. There is a model man-God true love and women-God true love and there is one man-women true love that God gives and there is a secret in it.

God made love and he has an important reason why he created love and is reaveals secrets. There is an importance in love he wants us to love and he created love so we are connencted to him.


Love is sometimes uncomfortable and we find it, it will come out not like we want but like God wants and it is neccesary soemtimes that way. Some people don't know how love will do all this and wome sometimes do and sometimes they don't really love is like fire and grows and dissapears like God in mysterious ways. There are many ways love is said in the bible becomes and some in poetry, some in literary way, some spirit, and others by Biology thru pheromones and body functions.


Love is more than that God's love in Heaven is something we don't grasp but we have before, feel it and where with him in heaven and had his love and before he sent us we did know what it was and we use it in heaven. Love is part of what God gives in heaven and he gave it to us for a purpose he has and in his plan of God and it is all different it all works for his plan and love comes out when you least expect it.



David realtionship with Bethsabe- it was wrong and yet God let him have her and it was a bad start but still God's plan got thru and what was needed for Solomon to be born and Israel kingdom to exist happened. Sometimes hard times have to happen so love can become true love and putting it in God's hands will help.


Abraham realtionship with Sarah- They are the model relationship after the fall they pass hard tests but shows true love wins against the them all and were faithful to God and got thru it all. Love is part of the test God gives to man and women, to the people who worship him.


Even in tragedy those who fall in love are examples true love is part of the plan of God and will test you.

there will be more examples of Abraham-sarah couple, we will see true love can come at the beggining, middle of life, or in the end and wait for 50 years or 60 years to have it. Just like Jacob had to pass 7 years to have Rachel it is sometimes the hard tests of love and his people.


Love can be in the beggining when your a child and meet them to pass thru all the tests.


Love can be in your middle life and when you are mature.


Love can be at the end of your life and at old age find true love and it all can be a purpose find true love and thru hard times when your young pass thru test and be faithful to your wife and to God and be with God and be faithful until the end.

Sometimes you had true love you did something good for your love life and been a couple you help someone in that earlylife and if you weren't a couple couldn't do it because you were not in a partner relationship and they didn't compare to you. Because you weren't in the same position as them and just out of probabilities you were doing things and it happened out of nowhere and you help someone and did the plan of God and change someone life to become a christian. It could be you where in middle life and found love and she left becuase she was confused and wasn't sure you were the one person you were meant and she left because she wasn't sure. Later you forgive her because true love will love no matter what. You have to put God first and if God wanted you to find true love you will ask for it and she will be the one.



But you will find true love and she left you for someone you will see you will find her and even if contradiction in the next words, be agaisnt God because he is testing you and he will do that God and not to leave the faith but even hard things in life. You wait and she realize she was wrong and you love each other true love is there and is the true love God gives. It may sound contradictable but sometimes it will go that way God test to have true love. Remember it will depend and it all has to do with the plan of God.


For example I know a couple women found a man and he was a gentile and she was jewish. They knew they were meant for each other and they were part of the plan of God. But thier families were against each and thier religion were against each other. The girl went against her religion and the guy rejected his family they met in secret and kept thier love. At the end he went jewish and converted.

This was a happy ending and some stories I found and know you have heard of it and others. Men left thier jewish religion and married and the girl left thier life and got married he never came back to judaism. But they found true love. The other story one left his life and amrried to a women and christian women left the church but later got back in their old age and were baptized. They could be against God but sometimes happens to find true love God will put in those conditions. This are the test God gives that gives.


The first part to have true love.



1. Ask God for it. Pray to him and pray to him he will answer no !!! But if you really want it get it no matter what. He will send you tests and let you have victory and she might leave but he wants you pass the hard times and be faithful. You will see she might die or she leaves and you will see her in the end. And God will save her and meet her in heaven. It is a test and God is not God that does not want happy ending but needs to make story that new and be the story he wants to be witness of your story and you will pass hard times but you will win. And true love at the end will win. Eve if she dies, she leave you, or sometimes an accident you don't happens.

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2. If you want true love you pray for it and ask God for it. but remember it depends not all of us want true love and were not all made for true love. God wants us to worship him and love him adore him. The relationship with God and man is to him. To love him and he is the only source of love and he is your focal point in life. He's worship is him and you. It for women and for men, it is the purpose we worship and why he creates us. That is why some of us were made soldiers, some were made builders, were artist, and some are monks. Were all made for diffrent purpose and we are complete when we do the plan of God. So man are meant to be God-man realtionship it is neccesary man and his realtion with God make man, makes prophets, and makes kings. The same for women. This is not about sexual relation, sexual relation is not how to find ture love but God is the one who will give true love. You can find couples in the world that don't have sexual relation and they find true love.

Rember we are all witnesses and that is why ! We are here to be witness of God war against the devil and we were faithful with him until the end and pass the tests. Not all of us are made for couple but have true love with the Lord and have the real love God has given to one another with him. And man has the love God has from heaven and is perfect. Jesus is the love God wants man to have and it is true love. And he wants us that love as priority. But some can't reach that love and they find a women and love and that is enough for man. But it is the plan of God and sometimes God will want you to find a women that has that love like Jesus and does reach it. And wants you to pair with her to find true love and Together find a secret that only two fo those people together can unravel thru their relationships and do a secret thing only they will know that God reavels and can be achieve only thru women-man- love of Jesus had - relationship with God. With the original worship of God has in the bible way and not the confusing of modern way couples that just divorce and television tell us.

The real worship of God that Israelites have, the real people of God that love and worship and will do everthing for his kingdom. They will fight, kill, be tested, love and lose loves one but will be faithful to him in the end. They achieve this secret and find it.

There is

man-God with Jesus love relationship can achieve it.

women- God with Jesus relationship can achieve it.

And Man-Women-God with Jesus love can achieve it.

Women-Man Babylonic ( That is the whole world, normal wedding )

Men-Men ( gay relationship ) cannot achieve it.

Women-Women ( Lesbian relationship ) cannot achieve it.

True love is secret and the hebrew secret of God in true love and his people is secret and the real people of God will know that secret .


Some couples won't find it and love will go in any direction and God will put it that way.

True love will be tested and to find it. God will make you go thru hard times and lose but will win. True love is part of the plan of God and you will use love like Jesus and complete his plan with it. And find with love, with love with all your heart to God and do it with with all your heart. Sometimes it is needed the heart of a child, to be in women place and have a heart of women to love them but to be a man of God and be wise. And know how to use wisdom and let God helps you with his hands, put his will above yours and hers, have a heart of child to love like children love because God love children because they will give themselves to the lord and be selfless to others and sacrifice themselves to save them like Jesus says.

John 15: 12-15

12 This is my commandment, that ye love one another, even as I have loved you. 13 Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends. 14 Ye are my friends, if ye do the things which I command you. 15 No longer do I call you servants; for the servant knoweth not what his lord doeth: but I have called you friends; for all things that I heard from my Father I have made known unto you.

To Love like God loves and love your wife, love your children, and enemies all of them. you achieve this you get the real worship of God and have the relationship of Jesus with God. And use it for the women-men-God with Jesus love. God will reveal you secret that only that relation between Jesus-God has. It is a secret and only the real people of God kow !!!


It is not easy but it is a secret.


Couple will not find it some like Samson-Delalilah, Ruth-Boaz, and Judith-Holofernes. Samson love his wife and even though his wife was evil, he survive and still was faithful to God. Ruth had to go thru hard tests and Judith but they dind't know about that love Jesus
had but did love.

3. It's time sometimes love will pass thru time to be true love and some find true love at early stage, middle fo their life and at the end. But true love is not love at first sight, love in same interest, love for sexual desire, love for needs, or love to give. You will see many will love but will not find true love. The promblem is sometimes you can be sure your in love but alter find out he is not the one and later find out when you die and in heaven God tells ya it was someone else. sometimes you will be in those positions but you need to find out where is the true one for you.the one you wanted and the one you promise in heaven you will meet again and find love together like God planned it. And you were made by God together and he knew you both and sent you together on mission and the plan he gave you. Were meant for both of you to do like Abraham and Sarah, to have many children as the stars. King Solomon and Queen Sheba who they met and King Solomon knew the secrets of love and together did good for both nations and God plan to help Solomon know what is love so he can write in psalm, proverbs, and Eccliastes to help women and men fidn true love like the song of songs.

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It is all the plan of God and to find it and know which one is.

4. The tests. To find out you need to test to see if he was meant or she was meant and true love is there. The test may vary depending on the person. If he is the one you will make the test he will give it all up for you and he is the one he will support you in all th promblems. True love is that way. And other tests you will seperate and he will go with another and you will go with another. He will love ya he will go thru all the promblems and take you away swooping of your feet and stay together.
The other one he will be away but because of a promblem or he is stupid he will wait and pass 40 years and you will meet again and rekindle and found he is the one ! but stay together don't try and test with a death situation that he will love he will kill or hurt they happen but look for one because it could go wrong and bot lose thier love and die. You will see the tests will come and sue those three and it will show you true love it could God will give you all three of them and see it si his plan but remember not aall of us were meant for man-women some are monks, some are soldiers and some are flowerist not all of us are part of this and you have to ask God to have it and pray and pray. he wil deliver.


5. True love wins at the end, You will see love goes thru everything and accomplish it all.
1 Corinthians 13:4-8
4 Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. 5 It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. 6 Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. 7 It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.
8 Love never fails. But where there are prophecies, they will cease; where there are tongues, they will be stilled; where there is knowledge, it will pass away.

True love will be tested by God. You have true love God will reveal to you that secret, the love God gives is part of his love in Heaven and true love is part of it. Pray to God and he will deliver and women who suffer to know what he wants will know that secret and find God's love in them and find the secret things of love in them. They will see God love is in all of us all and he loves you.
Find love and women can love he wants and love like Jesus. And have love he has in heaven to complete and to do the men-women-Jesus love-God relationship to find that secret he wants.