thanks for the link:)
It seems every church and/or person interprets slightly differently.
Just for fun: a story. In my hometown there is a huge Mennonite Brethren church. The pastor was my neighbour; i was good friends w/ his daughter.
This is how they explained their ideas on sex:
The Mennonites think sex is a sin if it is outside of marriage.
However, oral sex does not 'count'.
It was hilarious to hear some of my Mennotite friends justifying giving their bf's bjobs while condoning the rest of us for having 'sex'.
However, they took it seriously.
I'm sure everyone has stories like these.