I'm very late to all of this. Only read everything in the last hour or so, post-edits.
Started to write yet another PM to Osso, decided to just put it here.
How awful, and I am so sorry.
Set, surely you know that both the fact that you, personally have learned to deal with tragedy and the fact that Osso had a deeply upsetting experience can co-exist? I don't really see why her understandable upset needs any response other than expressions of sympathy.
And I would certainly be upset a) if something so horrible happened to someone I knew, and b) if I said something about it and it was not acknowledged by anyone for such a long time. (How strange.)
Good morning and best regards to all.
I've had trouble getting on to A2k this a.m.
It's been terribly slow when it's not completely down.
My feet are quite nasty, after a hard day in the sun. I don't see how a rabbit foot could get any worse.