All women are different; I wonder where you go to meet women? Maybe you are going to places that attract the type of woman that would not be interested in you.
Go to places that you like; then you will meet women that have more of the interests of you. You have to put yourself in a position where you are more likely to be around women similar to yourself and also where you would need to engage with them.
For example, if you like to read and you go to the library, or a bookstore, there may likely be women like you there, but there is no engagement. However if the the bookstore is offering some sort of program, like I actually saw this, there was a gathering of people to color. Yeah an adult coloring group. Well they all sat at tables together coloring, so it puts all in a position to engage and talk while coloring.
Of course it does not need to be coloring, I gave that as an example because you can find almost any sort social gathering.