You are misconstruing my comment and I sure hope you listen. I am confused, maddened and disappointed over your inaction for your daughter. You have done nothing of substance.
All those conversations you've must of had with your children about "you can tell me anything" didn't happen. You need to re-evaluate your relationship as to why your daughter didn't Trust you enough to come forward at the time. SHE did not TRUST you. Let that sink in. Then do something about that. You can go on and on about her mental frailty but when the chips fell, she did not come to you. At all.
All those people who KNEW and 1) did nothing and 2) advised your daughter to not tell are people who do not have you or your daughter's best interest at heart. They need confronted and atone for allowing a minor to handle this on her own. Serious trust procedures should be implemented, as in you don't trust ANY of them EVER again. They have failed you as a person, as a mother and a member of the family.
Almost every time you talk about your husband it's in the respect of how he uses violence to solve issues. He tends to fly off the handle and thinks beating people up is the best answer to every situation. This isn't the first time you've mention him wanting to beat people up. Does he not realize he's an adult and punching people is wrong??
You still have not made a report to the Police. It needs to go on record how this 30 yr old man committed Attempted Statutory Rape. Even if it's too late to prosecute over your daughter's case, it WILL alert the police to use patrol hours making sure he is staying away from minors.
DO something, Linkat.
And before you fly off the handle with me and make every attempt to deflect your behavior, just remember you put way too many personal situations on the internet. Maybe it's time to actually focus on your family instead of asking opinions on how to handle every situation.