@glitterbag,
I used to like hotter and spicier but tasty. When I grew up, my father loved his spicy condiments and horseradish (he even ground his own). He would bribe or reward us if we could eat these hot peppers in the salad. So as youngster, I developed tolerance for hotter foods, but not blazing hot. You paid to dearly in the end!
Fast forward decades later, I now enjoy mild spicy, but tasty. My significant other cat tolerate ANY spiciness, whatsoever. When we eat in a restaurant, I have to go oversee the food choices so that a proper choice could be made on her behalf.