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God, Gays, and Headlines

 
 
Reply Tue 5 Jul, 2005 08:24 am
God, Gays, and Headlines
By Gene Stone
Tue Jul 5,12:39 AM ET

My friend Jon is in his thirties. He is smart, successful, and has a boyfriend, a dog, a car, and a co-op. He likes Madonna (sheepishly), dancing, and Tolstoy, and he can't stand Christians.

My friend Sarah is a Christian who is also smart, successful, and politically active. Her politics are to the left of Jon's, and she's out there in the streets protesting injustice whenever she sees it.

I can't get Jon to meet Sarah. As far as he's concerned, if Sarah is a Christian, she can't be trusted. Jacob knows this sounds foolish, but when I ask Jon how he arrived at this mistrust, his response is always, "Haven't you watched TV? Don't you read the papers? Don't you know what those people are trying to do to us?"

He's right -- about the media, that is. The media has turned the word Christian into something abominable to gays; a faith that's predicated on hatred. Read the papers, watch TV, and you'd think that Christianity was a monolithic block of homophobes whose idea of a good time is signing petitions to keep gays in chains for life.

Okay -- that's true for some. But what about the other Christians? The ones who abide by Christian values, and are loving, tolerant, and peaceful? These are the people who raised many of us, people whom we love dearly, and who love -- and accept -- us, in turn.

You don't see that story in the media, however. The media has come to worship the idea that there is one and only one Christianity, and it is represented by the folks who picket gay funerals and hold up signs that say "God Hates Fags." These are the people who sell magazines, who make for good ratings.

This weekend the United Church of Christ's rule-making body voted overwhelmingly to approve a resolution that endorses same-sex marriage, making it the largest Christian denomination to do so. Yes, it's a smaller denomination, with under a million and a half members. But it has long been accepting of gays, and was the first major Christian denomination to ordain an openly gay minister. In fact, last year this Church wanted to run an advertising campaign on television featuring a gay couple, among others, being excluded from a church. The networks rejected the ad. They said it was too controversial.

Get that? It was too controversial to show that a church accepted gays.

And how much media coverage do you think this latest move by the UCC will get? Same as that ad. Not much.

Controversy sells. Conciliation doesn't. No wonder why Christians and gays are at each other's throats. Forget that many gays are Christians, and many Christians aren't bigots. As far as the media is concerned, the idea that Christianity and homosexuality can co-exist peacefully is to be avoided as though it were forbidden fruit.
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panzade
 
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Reply Tue 5 Jul, 2005 08:30 am
Thanks for pointing out what I often forget. Things ain't exactly like the media portrays them.
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MinDSaY
 
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Reply Tue 5 Jul, 2005 08:35 am
It's just a stereotype. Things are twisted and turned and we see it in different ways.
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BumbleBeeBoogie
 
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Reply Tue 5 Jul, 2005 08:37 am
Panzade
Dys, Diane, and Shewolfnm and her husband and I were having a discussion about this very topic Sunday. We all could recall Christians that we liked, for themselves, not their religious beliefs. We all forget that from time to time in the heat of debate.

BBB
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BumbleBeeBoogie
 
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Reply Tue 5 Jul, 2005 08:58 am
United Church of Christ Backs Gay Marriage
United Church of Christ Backs Gay Marriage
By DOUG GROSS, Associated Press Writer
Mon Jul 4, 3:44 PM ET

The United Church of Christ's rule-making body voted overwhelmingly Monday to approve a resolution endorsing same-sex marriage, making it the largest Christian denomination to do so.

The vote is not binding on individual churches, but could cause some congregations to leave the fold.

Roughly 80 percent of the representatives on the church's 884-member General Synod voted to approve the resolution Monday, a day after a smaller committee recommended it.

The Rev. John H. Thomas, president of the United Church of Christ, said with the vote on Independence Day, the rule-making body "acted courageously to declare freedom."

The resolution calls on member churches of the liberal denomination of 1.3 million to consider wedding policies "that do not discriminate against couples based on gender."

It also asks churches to consider supporting legislation granting equal marriage rights to gay and lesbian couples and to work against laws banning gay marriage.

A small group of conservative congregations had proposed an alternative resolution defining marriage as between a man and a woman, and suggested that supporting gay marriage could lead to the church's collapse.

The Rev. Brett Becker, who represents a group of the UCC's more conservative churches, said it's possible his congregation at St. Paul United Church of Christ in Cibolo, Texas, will leave the church over the resolution.

"I would like to see us stay in the denomination and network for positive change," said Becker. "However, many of my members have expressed very clearly that this decision would cause great consternation and that, if this happened, they would want to see us leave."

UCC leaders said individual churches have not been polled about their views.

Formed in 1957 and traditionally strong in New England, the United Church of Christ has a tradition of support for gays and lesbians. It is distinct from the more conservative Churches of Christ, which has some 2 million members in the U.S.

The UCC was criticized last year for its television advertising campaign featuring a gay couple, among others, being excluded from a church. CBS and NBC rejected the 30-second ads.

In the early 1970s, the UCC became the first major Christian church to ordain an openly gay minister. The church declared itself to be "open and affirming" of gays and lesbians 20 years ago.

"This is a significant moment," said the Rev. Rebecca Voelkel, of Cleveland, coordinator of a church coalition addressing gay and lesbian issues. She said the decision emphasizes that lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender people are "spiritual people who love and are loved by God."

But Becker said he doesn't think Monday's vote was representative of the wishes of most church members.

"If we had put it to a vote of the people in the pews, it would have failed overwhelmingly," he said. "This is truly Independence Day for the UCC ?- we have declared ourselves independent from the teachings of Jesus and the clear teachings of Scripture."

UCC churches are autonomous, meaning the General Synod does not create policy for its more than 5,700 congregations.

Some opponents of the resolution preferred alternative language endorsing same-sex "covenanted relationships."

"I will find it much easier to sell back home, and quite frankly, to live with personally, if we replace 'marriage' with 'covenanted relationship,'" said Harlan Hall, a synod member from Wisconsin.

An amendment that would have made that change in language was overwhelmingly voted down, as were efforts to postpone a vote until next year.

In last fall's elections, gay marriage bans were handily approved in all 11 states that held referendums, including Georgia.

Homosexuality has also been a divisive issue for a number of churches.

The Anglican Communion has been divided since its U.S. branch, the Episcopal Church, consecrated an openly gay bishop in 2003. The United Methodist Church is also debating a panel's decision to reinstate a gay minister who had been defrocked.

This summer, a special task force of the Presbyterian Church (U.S.A.) is set to finish its report about how to overcome severe disagreements on gay relationships and other issues.

No hard data exist on how many gays and lesbians are in the UCC.

Voelkel said about 2,000 people are on her group's mailing list and about 1,000 clergy or seminarians are gay. The denomination has 10,323 ordained ministers.
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United Church of Christ: http://www.ucc.org
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Noddy24
 
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Reply Tue 5 Jul, 2005 09:43 am
I've just started the May, 2005, issue of Harper's. The feature theme is Soldier's of Christ examining both the Colorado Springs Megachurch theology and the National Religious Broadcasters points of view.

See:

http://www.harpers.org/SoldiersOfChrist.html

and

http://www.harpers.org/FeelingTheHate.html


I found these articles frightening--and I don't scare easy.
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alakritz
 
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Reply Mon 11 Jul, 2005 04:44 pm
In the words of E.M. Forester "Do we find happiness so often that we can turn it off the box when it just happens to sit there?"
In other words, you can't choose love, love chooses you. And if you are wise, you grab it and hold onto, and enjoy it. If you are unwise, you spend all your time trying to shape others. Life is simple. People make it hard.
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panzade
 
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Reply Mon 11 Jul, 2005 04:48 pm
welcome alakritz...and a welcome message
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