Hello - I am not saying black hair is not one way or another. I simply posted something from a black woman on what they do not want their hair called.
As I cited it seemed the only descriptive she wanted was natural. I am not a black woman so I did not feel I was in a position to describe what a black woman would prefer their hair type called.
You wanted something inoffensive to call African American hair - since no black person responded, I did a search to see what is the preferred way one would want their hair type called and I got what NOT to call it. You pretty much listed everything a black woman would not want their called.
You know some black woman - why don't you ask. Or better yet, if you really want to experiment - why don't you say to the next black woman you see "I really love your kinky, frizzy, woolly nappy hair! It is beautiful!" But invite me first, because I would love to she her response!