there's also Spinoza's *Ethics*, which is even more impenetrable than Kant. as to your parents, if i were in their place, i'd say, good works without faith means nothing; that's what the Bible says. on the other hand, i say, as long as you're a Christian & you repent sincerely, you're saved. if i could just give up my agnosticism, it would sure simplify some things.

see, i prefer that virtue be its own reward, if i only knew how to be virtuous.
incidentally, Spinoza claimed to believe in God, but not the sort of God one could build a religion around.