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Mon 4 Jun, 2018 11:01 pm
Seeing someone for over a year. Nice guy and he says he loves me. The trouble is that he lives almost 2 hours from me. Also he is a medical professional with his own firm and he works Monday through Friday and half a day every single Saturday. As a result we only see each other Saturday evening until after dinner Sunday evening. He also does not like to take off too much time to vacation. I have a large home and at which I wanted to sell for sometime. However, I have been reluctant to do so until I know what my living arrangements might be. I was ready to move in with my boyfriend. But I found out by asking him that he is not ready and will not be ready until he’s ready to close his medical firm in a few years. What this means is that we will only see each other one night a week for the next few years. I told him I didn’t think that made a full relationship from my perspective. As a FYI, I am going to be 61 years old and he will be 68 years old later this year. I feel I am ready to live with him but he does not agree since it is too inconvenient for us to live even in between each of our workplaces. I do believe he is telling me the truth that he does want to live with me but for the logistics and it’s not because he doesn’t want to live with me . What do I do? Do I wait a few more years when I’ll already be 63 or 64 years old or do I move on and find someone who is ready to put more time into a relationship and who also hopefully lives closer to where I am working.
You have posted before about this situation. You seem to want marriage, and you want it now. But you keep latching on to non- committed men, financially and emotionally. This guy is not committed to you. Otherwise, he would make better plans.
Find another man.
You chose the money guy
https://able2know.org/topic/440562-1#post-6581290
instead of the make you happy/good sex guy.
Deal with it.
@ehBeth,
I guess someone never heard the lesson "money cannot buy happiness."