@hingehead,
Some thought on Australia Day, 2011:
Well, hinge, as a child of a refugee family who came to this country with my family at a very young age, with naught possessions to show for ourselves, there's much that I feel less than hateful for.
It was drummed into me as a child, by my father:
You are living in a country with is not a constant war zone. (said he, who'd been dragged off to Germany (with the rest of us) to work as an enforced labourer in a munitions factory for the duration of ww2. And could not return home after the war because it was too dangerous.) We became "displaced people", who had to find a new home. We could have done a damn sight worse than Australia. Though it was considered the end of the world, an absolutely unknown quantity. (The rumour was that you could not buy butter there!)
I received a free education, courtesy of Gough Whitlam. Not a cent to pay for my tertiary education. (Can you imagine that now? Bright children had a chance in life, if not much family income to support them.)
My father told me, at a very young age: You are free to publicly say what you think. Respect that privilege. Many people don't have that luxury. You have no idea how fortunate you are to be able to exercise that right.
He also said: this country gave us a chance, a lifeline. Be grateful. Become part of this community you live in. Get involved with the community.
And lots more.
My father was a real "integrator". Rather out of fashion now, but this served us very well at the time.
It took me quite a number of years to fully appreciate just how fortunate we were to have landed where we did. A bit of travel, lots of reading & I understood a whole lot better. We were indeed very fortunate to have found our way here, by total accident, almost.
I just wish that more of our newer, most recent refugees & migrants could have access to the the same opportunities that were open to me.
It worked. Give people a chance, no matter what their background, & they will flourish if they have the capability to flourish... they will become an asset to the community.
I will never, ever, be one of those "my country, right or wrong" people, but I will be forever grateful to Australia & the opportunities it gave me, & so many other people.
I'm proud to be Australian. It took me a while to reach this point, but I'm genuinely proud ... & ready& willing & to tackle the many challenges ahead! (of which there are many.)