@TheColorfulGirl,
TheColorfulGirl wrote:
Guys not asking me out is a problem too.
For a date to happen, someone has to ask someone out.
If you aren't asking anyone, it seems unfair for you to expect someone else to do the asking. It isn't right for you to get upset at other people for not doing something that you aren't doing yourself. I am a man. If I am available, it is very unlikely that I will refuse a woman who asks me for a date... why would I? It is a chance to have a nice time with someone I might hit it off with.
I am serious. Go ask someone out.