Hi Roja,
I'm buttoning down my nationalism and I've carefully balanced a chip on each shoulder, but I'd like to challenge you on a few of your statements.
Parts of Australia are like Southern California, but the majority of it is not to say all of the US is like SoCal is not as misleading as saying all of Australia is like SoCal (similar land areas, but Oz has 1/20th of the population). It does sound like you didn't get out of a major city (sounds like you're talking about Sydney) and you didn't really see any of the good bits of it, and there are quite a few.
Also saying 'Australia doesn't have very much culture to speak of, aside from that which immigrants have bought' fits the US and Canada as well as it fits Oz (both had relatively small populations of indigenes until 'invaded' by immigrants.
Quote:not a strong national culture and the one that does exist seems mostly negative ie to be a redneck and hate people who try to be different or are successful
I'd argue against the first part of that statement, we do have a relatively solid national identity, generally speaking we are laid back, laconic, informal and distrustful of authority, we dislike airs and graces, support the underdog and believe in a 'fair go'. We don't push in queues.
On the latter part I have a harder time arguing, we do indeed have rednecks (though we prefer the term 'bogons', 'racists', 'coalition voters', and 'oxygen thieves'), but who doesn't?
I can't believe you think we hate people who are different - you must have had an awful experience here - but a country that host the Gay Mardi Gras and has over 30% of it's citizens born in another country is pretty tolerant.
We also don't hate the successful, we just don't idolise them (it's call the 'tall poppy' syndrome), you have to earn respect on a personal level, we hate toadies.
Damn, I'm generalising so badly here.
I'd love to hear about your experiences here, if only to apologise for them.
Oh, and we get narky when someone denigrates us, we're much better at it ourselves.