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Sun 28 May, 2017 11:44 am
Hi, so I(23 Years old) met this girl (27 Years old)at a wedding last night she was really nice and we really hit it off, she really liked me and asked me to go to her place after a couple of hours drinking, so any ways I don't want to annoy anyone with a lot of details, but one thing led to another and we did it, I used a condom obviously, and still with the condom I didn't ejaculate in her, I am pretty under control is such a situation because I am under pressure knowing that it could lead to pregnancy so I'm always on high alert, anyways here's the thing that's worrying me: after we were done I got in the shower and cleaned the little man, and I'm NOT SURE if I peed but then later she came into the shower with me and she wanted to go again and stupid me let her for 2 seconds to put it inside her (Without Condom), it was just 2 seconds! Because than i realised what it could lead to, I know it was just 2 seconds but I had just ejaculated 5 minutes before!
I get paranoid a lot so please cope with me but, what are the chances of impregnating a girl with 2 seconds of sexual contact after ejaculating 5 minutes prior while having cleaned it in the shower but not sure if I peed "to clean the pipes" after I ejaculated?
Thanks a lot in advance and I hope you understand my paranoia I'm sort of a pessimist thinking the worst of all fun things making me ruin the thrill of having experienced something afterwards. Thank you again!Hi, so I(23 Years old) met this girl (27 Years old)at a wedding last night she was really nice and we really hit it off, she really liked me and asked me to go to her place after a couple of hours drinking, so any ways I don't want to annoy anyone with a lot of details, but one thing led to another and we did it, I used a condom obviously, and still with the condom I didn't ejaculate in her, I am pretty under control is such a situation because I am under pressure knowing that it could lead to pregnancy so I'm always on high alert, anyways here's the thing that's worrying me: after we were done I got in the shower and cleaned the little man, and I'm NOT SURE if I peed but then later she came into the shower with me and she wanted to go again and stupid me let her for 2 seconds to put it inside her (Without Condom), it was just 2 seconds! Because than i realised what it could lead to, I know it was just 2 seconds but I had just ejaculated 5 minutes before!
I get paranoid a lot so please cope with me but, what are the chances of impregnating a girl with 2 seconds of sexual contact after ejaculating 5 minutes prior while having cleaned it in the shower but not sure if I peed "to clean the pipes" after I ejaculated?
Thanks a lot in advance and I hope you understand my paranoia I'm sort of a pessimist thinking the worst of all fun things making me ruin the thrill of having experienced something afterwards. Thank you again!
@whatarewe,
I would put them at very low although not zero.
A few things to do:
- Keep in touch with this woman. Not so much for a relationship but for everyone's peace of mind. If the dice roll ends up pregnant, then it's better you didn't skip town. If it doesn't, then at least you know for sure, plus it's just a nice thing to do.
- Wait two weeks until after her period is due (if it is late) before she takes a pregnancy test. Why? Because pretty much all of them require that so that you don't get a false reading. Work with her to follow the test's instructions to the letter.
- If the dice roll turns up pregnant (again, highly unlikely), then be a good person and go with her to appointments, etc., whether the decision is (a joint decision, I hope) to continue or to stop everything.
- Insist on wearing condoms from now on unless you are in a monogamous relationship and either another form of birth control is being used or you and your partner are trying to get pregnant. Someone gets frisky in the shower with you, then do something other than penetrative sex.
Also, be aware that not using a condom can expose you to STDs - another good reason to use 'em.
@jespah,
I am agreeing with Jespah. I think the chances are very low. Use this as a learning experience.
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