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Is my ex girlfriend crazy or a narcissist?

 
 
Vdigai
 
Reply Sun 12 Feb, 2017 08:13 pm
Okay, so I had a girlfriend back in high school, and the relationship we had were pretty brief, about 4 month, and then on an off about 2 month more, which in total is 6. Everything started pretty good. But quickly turned awkward. So for both of us those relationships were first, and before them I knew that she had feelings for me for quite a while, so finally I started to feel as if it will be cool to give it a try. We started dating and everything when very passionate. I quickly fell in love with her and everything was good. Three month into relationship I had to go to my relatives in other town to visit, and she didn't want me to leave but I had to. So we were having Facebook conversations in which she started to tell me that she was drinking and parting with other guy or guys, because I left, so she was giving me hard time, for no reason.She even told me that she kissed someone, so when I returned I forgave her, because I truly felt as if she needed me when I had to go. Shortly after she started to say that I wasn't actually absent but pretended because I wanted to dump her. So I snapped and indeed ended relationships. On that time we were classmates and she gave a bad rumor about me in class and most of the people hated me and thought that I was a bastard. Fast forward ,I felt guilty and convinced her that I indeed left the town and we started again for 2 month. She also talked about being a victim and even told me that she had to sell her body to pay off some debts of her family, she also invented some illness and... well she was a victim, so I fell for those lies that and was like a puppy. After 2 month of lies and telling me that she will die everything ended, just because it was crazy and lucky by that time my classmates found out that most of the stuff she was telling were lies. Many people apologized, but I still had to see her every day in class before we graduated. In last years of high school I had some girlfriend and after that went to uni and then transferred into a college. So now, almost 5 years after I saw here she gives me a facebook message out of the blue.I answer here thinking that she grew up and maybe finally will apologize for lies, instead on my question about why she decided to write me after so many years she gives me quote from Harry Potter " After so many years? -Always" ,basically it is love quote. And then adds ,that I misunderstood and of course she grew up out of those relationships and everything is cool. Does she is manipulating me, why she contacts me, does she want to remind me of how much **** I had to take?Please help me understand.Thank you.
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jespah
 
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Reply Sun 12 Feb, 2017 08:18 pm
@Vdigai,
Quit wondering and block her.
Vdigai
 
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Reply Sun 12 Feb, 2017 08:20 pm
@jespah,
That's what I immediately did. But I just feel puzzled, why a person be so cruel? After years now I think about how ugly things ended.
Thanks.
Krumple
 
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Reply Sun 12 Feb, 2017 09:09 pm
@Vdigai,
Vdigai wrote:

That's what I immediately did. But I just feel puzzled, why a person be so cruel? After years now I think about how ugly things ended.
Thanks.


Some girls are just a little nutty. They think a little drama makes life more interesting even if they have to lie to make it happen. Its usually a young habit but some never grow out of it. Cut your loss and don't look back, she will only try to wrap you up in her craziness.
Vdigai
 
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Reply Mon 13 Feb, 2017 07:29 am
@Krumple,
Thank you for the reply. I just needed a reassurance, because there were so many time she played tricks with me and honestly those mind games drive me crazy, so much pain for first relationships. So you know. Thanks.
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