I'm sorry folks, but this "naive realist" has dutifully read all the links presented on this thread for our edification.
Lets face it, A black hole is merely a location in space and time where the total accelerations of gravity exceed 300,000 kilometers per second to the viewer.
IF there is, and there probably is, surrounded by the Milky Way, an area of sufficient mass to accelerate spacetime to greater than the speed of light at that location then we have a black hole.
Eventually, as one looks further and further away from our location, the energies and wave lengths of light will get dimmer and dimmer and longer and longer until they are no longer capable of transporting any information. Consequently we reside in another type of "black hole" . This type is due merely to the nature of light in a gravity (space time) field, the other merely due to the actions of gravity upon light in a gravity (space time) field. The average density of the field makes all the difference.
It doesn't take a rocket scientist (Ican will do just fine
) to know that if you can fly an airplane at 650 miles per hour and you have a head wind of 700 miles per hour you ain't gonna get there. You may get some place else twice as quick though, if you do it right. Same principle applies when swimming or canoeing in a river.
If light (electromagnetic radiation) propagates at 300,000 KMH and the total accelerations of gravity at that point are over (c) the speed of light you ain't gonna see anything from outside, ie a black hole.
We are limited in our observations by the speed of light, and there is no good reason to assume that outside our purview things are any different.
There is also no good reason to assume that outside our purview things are the same, but a fair THEORY could assume that, and go on from there.
If we are going to assume the existence of other than four dimensions, and assume that time (not space time) is a function of the speed of light then we may as well go whole hog and assume that something-somewhere thought "Let There Be Light" and go on from there.
The results of that theory have, IMO natch, left something to be desired.
Happy thoughts everyone. Keep in mind that Knowing, Thinking, and Believing may be very different things.