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Quote:From the questions you are asking one may conclude that you have already heard a lot about some Russian customs and traditions. Have you ever been to Russia? How did you become interested in the Russian culture, language, way of life etc.?
I'm sorry to say I've never been to Russia. I would very much like to visit. Why am I interested? Hmm. I think that to many Americans, Russia is a fascinating and mysterious place. Most of us do not know a great deal about Russia, one of the reasons being that the Soviet regime was a secretive one. Not many people traveled there, and to meet a Russian person in America was less common than meeting, for instance, an Italian person or a Spanish person. At least this is true in the town I live in. So, the lack of information was enough to make me curious about what life was like in your country.
Before I began searching for information, I knew very little. When I thought of Russia, I thought of snow.
Snow, coats, ushankas, and vodka. That's about it. So, I wanted to know more because I knew so little. The more I learned, the more interested I became. I think that people are people the world over, but your culture is different from mine in a lot of ways. As an example:
A few years ago I saw a television show on Russian foods. The American hosting the show traveled to Moscow and met his guide. Together they visited several different restaurants, showing a variety of Russian foods. He also went to an open market with a Russian woman who bought items to make Borscht. They made it in her kitchen at home. It was a very interesting program. One of the best parts of the show was that the American host was taken to a Banya. There, he and his guide had vodka and some food while in the Banya, then a woman came with, well, with what I would call switches - thin branches from a tree. She not so gently slapped them across the back of the American host while he lay on his stomach. Then, the host had to go jump into the freezing lake. I had to laugh. I thought they must be making fun of the dumb American and telling him this is tradition! But, I have learned that this actually is a very relaxing thing to do. I have not learned this from experience. I don't even know what it would take to get me to jump into a freezing lake!
Another difference that really caught my interested was the use of patronymic and familiar names. I think I mentioned before that we don't have this custom here. While we do have nicknames, it's not at all the same. If we shorten a given name in America, it really is just a shorter version of the name. A man named "Timothy" might be called "Tim", a woman named "Suzanne" might be called "Suz", but there are no tender versions or friendly versions of the name. In Russia, it seems the familiar names are almost an endearment. I have really enjoyed trying to learn the different familiar names and the appropriate usage for each of them. It can be confusing, but I'm catching on.
Most of my questions are really about ordinary things. Those questions occurred to me originally because of a fictional story I'm currently writing. I have so enjoyed learning about Russian life that I have given several of my fictional characters a Russian heritage. Now, you can imagine my dilemma.
Even though I write mostly for my own pleasure, it is imperative that my characters be true to life. That requires that I learn all I can about Russia, her culture and her people. Since most of what I need to know about daily life does not come from a book or an article, (although I have learned a great deal from both of those sources) I was so happy to find this discussion. I would pursue this knowledge regardless of the story I am writing - but because of the story, as I move the characters through their day and their life, questions have occurred to me that otherwise might not have.
On an unrelated note, I recognized by sight my very first word written in Cyrillic. I don't have Cyrillic font, but the word was in a photograph of Moscow - a billboard advertising a restaurant. I read the word "restaurant". Sad to be proud of such a small thing - a single word - but I am.
Hope this answers your question to some degree. If not, let me know.
Virago