@Robert Gentel,
Thanks Robert... I appreciate your taking the time to post a reply. Blue indicates that she hasn't blocked Red, or Red's friend and I believe her. She's an old friend with whom I have never had a romantic involvement and she has no reason to be dishonest. I realize that I might be asking a lot, but if you have a contact at FB that might be able to shed any light on this, reaching out to them would be sincerely appreciated. I don't want to seem dramatic, but this is a matter of the heart, and one which has the potential to impact the rest of my life. The fact is, I love Red and to lose her over something like this would be a senseless tragedy. Please, if you know someone who might be able to help, please consider asking... I would be truly grateful.