Why men are turning their backs on women

Women should be raised on a pedestal. Just high enough so you can look up her dress. -Steve Martin

The main issue I see in today's society is men and women not treating each other as equals. I do not see that women deserve an extra privilege because they have a vagina. Treat a woman as an equal, make her laugh once in awhile and you will find your self in a relationship. Treat women like they are better or worse then you and you will always be looking for something better.

Also doesn't hurt to understand that not every woman is deserving of your attention either. Women are just as messed up as men are and it is important to realize that.

I feel fortunate that I found the right girl for me. We are still best friends after 20 years. We've raised a good family because we both parent the children. We both act as role models. We fight sometimes, we snuggle sometimes. All part of a healthy relationship.

I don't know what kind of home you were brought up in, but I thank God I have never heard of such a crock ever. Face it, you're an unhappy camper who thinks the world didn't treat you well. Your attitude is repellent, and smacks of incredibly low self esteem. Pity

And yet all I have heard of the instructions that you say you gave your sons leaves open that you did just that. Did you or did you not teach your sons that if a woman argues with them then walk away, do not stand your ground?

But the universe does not care what you like and what you dont like, it only cares what is the truth and what is not the truth. I try hard to stay on the side of truth, succeeding most of the time.

No, you flushable turd, I told them nothing of the sort. I did tell them not to settle scores with women by beating them to a pulp. Sometime you surprise me, I know you're a hateful pile of crap but I didn't realize you have such a poor memory. Dolt

And yet, you are still a loathsome slimy cretin. Happy truth telling, you repulsive unwashed maggot.

It keeps changing, sometimes his father is a hopeless, violent alcoholic who's not to be trusted with money. At other times he's an Asian tiger figure who was the first in his family to graduate from university who insisted his kids did the same or were holding down a wage at 19 and standing on their on two feet in their own place.

Life is messy and people are complicated.

I would not dream of expecting you to understand.

Well you don't, coherence isn't something anybody could accuse you of.

You can't even accuse him of reading comprehension. When I've written about how happy I am that the young men in my family all turned out well, he can't grasp that concept. Because of his contempt for women in general he hears is glitterbag trained young men to be wimps and afraid of women'.

Your mother must have been a lousy human being. Or she wasn't, and hangs her head in shame about what a numb-nuts you turned out to be.

You're the disturbed creep that girls fathers warned them about. My dad taught me to cross the street if I saw someone like you approaching. I can't even see you and yet you make my skin crawl.

Why don't you skip over to the SNBD store and buy yourself something pretty, it will cheer you up.

Glitterbag, you seem to employ a cheap tactic, the logical fallacy.

Of course women care about their blood relations, if said blood relations obey the same social norms that the female enforces (the female role is typically to adhere to social norms.) The typical female empathy does not extend much further than blood family, though. She is known to betray and abandon trusted friends, even other females.

Glitterbag demonstrates the desperate arguments of a female cornered.

Her arguments seem to be falling apart, so she resorts to excessive strings of ad hominems, calling her opponent filthy, violent, disturbed, "creepy", and having a "bad mother". Of course, thought most females of the species tend to be frailer than males, they make up for it by resorting to brattish rants when they feel trapped or losing a battle. Other brands of females, less violent than the ad-hom'ers, simply hit the block button when they feel a debate or conversation is not going their way.

Remember, it's always you're fault, because the woman believes herself to be the center of the universe, free and absolved from all blame. This is because women have the mind of a young child. You can see her unchanged youth in the faces of all feminine women. Masculinity is a mutating agent, the female form is the base form of all infants. Most women never mature, because to mature, would be to become masculine, and to lose her child-like femininity.

Welcome to A2K, I hope things work out better for you under your new name.

Men are not turning there backs on women...

i am a female who was raised by my single dad, he was a strong man. it takes a strong man to do what he did, to start life again in a new city with three young daughters, he worked hard, he tried his best and he protected us. my mum was a disaster. but i new more people that had the same experience as me growing up but it was the other way round. their dad failed them and their mother was there, trying her best.

The point is there isn't any conspiracy going on. everyone is different and has different experiences. there isn't a battle between the sexes, women just wanted equality, its not a bad thing, its just a change in society that we all have to adapt to, together. the truth is women aren't one thing and men another, were all just making it up as we go along and trying our best to be happy in life. there is good and bad in everyone.

and if i every heard a women say that 'she isn't getting any' then i would presume that she's either a s**g, she singing or she's talking about problems with her partner in the bedroom department.

a man and a women in a relationship, should be a partnership because they both have different options and yes sometimes they will fight but they also both have strengths and weaknesses that make each other stronger together. there doesn't need to be one dominating the other all the time, it can work both ways in different situations. thats the best you will ever get because we don't live in a perfect world, so embrace it

TLDR

1- woman have given up on monogamy... ups men haven´t been that interested in monogamy through history
2- you have to pay for the kids because they are yours! you pay for their education, clothes, well being and their food. that´s what happens when you have kids, mate
3-present economic and social situation is the result of the immediate past governments and leaders-- 80 were men so....
4- youll dull the pain with girls if those girls want to dull theirs with you.. using another human being as a consolation price its not exactly correct but using a much younger person, emotionally more fragile and sexually quite less experienced its disgusting.... pay for it and grow up
5_Never before in history have relations between the sexes been so fraught with anxiety, animosity and misunderstanding.----- WRONG its the male part of the relationship the one that has never been so difficult-- the female part of the relationship: considered as an inferior, economically and socially dependent, educationally limited and emotionally and capacity considered as unuseful were full of anxiety attacks, animosity fraught with and misunderstanding as the norm in their lifes
6- the sight of society breaking down, and ordinary men and women being driven into separate but equal misery,--- that´s the point misery should be suffered for both partners equally.. having have of the world population miserable, while the other half enjoys the peace and privilege life that suffering brings to their lives its not a society we should mourn for
7_Cruelly derided as man-children and crybabies for objecting to absurdly unfair conditions in college, bars, clubs and beyond, men are damned if they do and damned if they don't: ridiculed as basement-dwellers for avoiding aggressive, demanding women with unrealistic expectations, or called rapists and misogynists merely for expressing sexual interest. --- well well that its not as bad as being considered husband producing machine of babies, 24/7 cleaning lady, have given the rights of a toddler over money and common property and be any time treated as a piece of meat any men could stare at, criticize or try feel a coup any time any where... no its not that bad... its not as bad as being called frigid if you don't want to have sex or whore if you show interest on it
8-"Teenage boys always have been useless with girls, but there's definitely a fear that now being well-intentioned isn't enough, and you can get into trouble just for being clumsy," he says. "For example, leaning in for a kiss might see you branded a creep, rather than just inept."--- well in the past you could be branded a nun if you felt uncomfortable while kissing rather than just unexperienced
9-The new rules men are expected to live by are never clearly explained,: you mean like getting to the wedding night without any knowledge about a man´s body or your own and completely ignorant of what having sexual relationships meant and were about? yep... let me tell you one thing we were giving no rules then and you are going to be given exactly the same. There was just one rule back then and that was: he does what he wants and you have to let yourself be done. he does the first move if he is interested, he decides if he likes you enough to consider you his girlfriend and then ask you to marry him ...that was your rule ...
10_But, according to Paglia, when that women goes out into the real world without the safety net of college rape committees, she is left totally unprepared for the sometimes violent reality of male sexuality. And the panics and fear-mongering are serving men even more poorly. All in all, education is becoming a miserable experience for boys.
11- WTF!!! first male sexuality it´s not violent!! it´s faster, more demanding and obviously more present on daily basic but its not violent!! second if a women going out to the real world results on she becoming immediately a prey for some pervert assailant ... then... you men have no respect for your own genre .. you are not beasts nor brainless beings and instead of focusing that much on how offensive it is for you those rape committees, you should focus on the clearly needed sexual equality and respect committees for men, where they are taught first: a actively and consciously sex enjoying woman is not aggressive at all and second: asking for permission won´t make your pennis fall down your pants
12-it causes a lot of them to just opt out of the game and retreat to the sanctuary of their groups of lads, where being rude to women gets you approval, and you can pretty much entirely avoid one-on-one socialising with the opposite sex."- and that it´s something new??? teenagers were talking all the time about sports, video games, adventurous achievements barely dangerous but socially appreciated among their mates and looking once a day to the group of girls to talk dirty about their skirts or how tight Marias sweater was around the upper part of her body
-- "There are also a lot of blokes who ignore women because they are scared and don't know how to act. It goes without saying that boys who never spend any time alone with women are not very good at relationships."
those were the ones playing role and talking about warhammer miniatures and doom 2 new scenarios and bigger guns range you can choose from.
again : nothing new there
13--they grew up, dysfunctional, under-served by society, deeply miserable and, in many cases, entirely unable to relate to the opposite sex. It is the boys who were being betrayed by the education system and by culture at large in such vast numbers between 1990 and 2010 who represent the first generation of what I call the sexodus, a large-scale exit from mainstream society by males who have decided they simply can't face, or be bothered with, forming healthy relationships and participating fully in their local communities, national democracies and other real-world social structures. --- You grew up dysfunctional from being denied the right to express your feelings at the risk of being considered sissies, under-served by society who gave you a doll to breed baby instead a partner so you faced your future alone, miserable cause you suddenly felt the only one responsible of providing your family and entirely unable to relate to the opposite sex: you were the generation that run to the bar at nights to meet other as troubled and lonely as you, ....


so, not to be that long, you have to grow some balls and be have as brave as women were in the past, you have a person in front of you, not a doll anymore, nor an vicious alien, talk to her, get to know her, there are no rules when meeting people ... sorry mate, men giving up on women is the result of your machismo, your were the dominant one just because you were the men... now you have to be a person, and you are all part of the first generation of the modern man... the shitty thing here is you have no role model to follow... you´ll be your kids one though ... Do your best and stop whining!!