The issue of cliques IS appropriate for the Relationships forum, and it is a potent issue, especially for kids today. I don't see a problem with opening up a discussion about it in the proper forum, wildflower. I'm pretty sure I know what you were questioning, but an open discussion on the general problem or influence of cliques and the need to feel popular would be a fine debate indeed.
well dlowan, you're already a popular bunny. easy for you to say.
No to mailing you the money.