civility
Abject - adj. Brought low, miserable, craven, degraded.
Surrender - v. Yield up, give into another's power or control, relinquish possession of, esp. upon compulsion or demand; abandon claim under insurance policy in return for payment of consideration; abandon oneself, give oneself up to some influence, habit, emotion, etc.; yield to enemy or assailant; give oneself up, submit, cease from resistance.
Put them both together, you get "Courtesy"?
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