@AugustineBrother,
I don't consider myself particularly mean. As I have said a few times on this forum, I used to be a Bible Believing Christian. In fact, I was training for the ministry.
I was challenged to question my faith. After all, if it is true than it can stand being questioned. I looked at what the Bible said, how people were interpreting the Bible, and the way people following the Bible acted towards each other an toward the World. When I thought honestly about what I believed about being a good person, and about how the world should work... I decided that being a Christian didn't make any sense for me.
I don't think this is mean. I have been a better person since I stopped trying to follow God.
There is nothing wrong with challenging people to question their faith. Everyone should question their beliefs based on what they experience and the world around them. I have no problem with anyone who after questioning their own faith decides to continue.
But I do believe it is always a good thing to be willing to question your own beliefs, and change them when they stop making sense.
(BTW, I love the idea of you calling one person "stupid" and another person "mean"
in the same sentence. It made me chuckle.)