Cinnesthesia wrote:eoe wrote:
Dying unprepared.
Who is really ever completely prepared? A very brave person or a delusional one?
My father was completely prepared. He elected not to have heart surgery, his doctor predicted that without it, he had about two years so, in those last two years he got his paperwork in order, took a couple of vacations to see family, sold his car, transferred much of his business to his son. He was prepared mentally, emotionally, financially. As a matter of fact, he didn't really anticipate living long enough to end up in a nursing home so when he did, completely against his wishes, he died three days later, in control, IMO, until the end.