I don't use a dishwasher....and I find washing a colander aggravating.
Such is life.
Everybody I know peel asparagus.
White asparagus always - green not just cut the buttom hard part.
In our house whoever does the cooking serves the dinner at the table. We don’t put serving dishes on the table unless we’re having company for dinner.
And the one who didn’t cook cleans the kitchen.