Frustrated, I don't wanna sound mean here, but the ticket is to train the pup, not to let the pup train you. If you want the pup to adopt behavior convenient to your lifestyle, you're gonna hafta find more room in your life for the pup. What I get from your recounting of your adventures is that the pup thinks it has the upper hand. I'm not real sure about this, but I gather the pup is alone much of the day. That simply isn't cool. Bein' a pack critter, dogs need lots more companionship than do critters like turtles or rocks. You mention
Quote: ... When she starts to poop, I scoop her up and take her out and then she won't finish. She holds it! I think this is a dominance issue. My husband took her for her final walk last night, stayed out with her about 7-8 minutes, and she did nothing. He brought her inside, and at bedtime she jumped on the bed and peed...
You got one thing right; its a dominance issue. Spending "7 - 8 minutes" ain't nearly gettin' the job done. Particularly for a pup, a good deal of exploring and sniffing and just being somewhere else than where it has been for hours might occupy half an hour or more. You want years of good behavior. Figure you're gonna hafta invest a few hours a day for a few weeks to make that a possibility. That evening, post-feeding/pre bedtime walk prolly oughtta be at least half an hour or longer. The pup hasta have time to sniff and snoop and check stuff out first ... on its schedule, not yours. Given sufficient time, it'll decide the next thing to do is to pee and/or poop ... its just that after all day in th4e house, the , there's more interesting stuff to look into first. Hang out outdoors with the pup longer ... even if at first it takes what seems an awfully long time, the pup eventually will relieve itself. When it does, let it know that's appreciated. If it means a few evenings of spending an hour or more outside with the pup, then that's what it means. If and when the pup pulls the pee-on-the-bed trick, interupt it, take it outside, and spend
[MORE time out there with it. The whole idea is to form an association in the pup's head between "output" and "outside". Right now, I get the impression the pup has formed an association between "output on the bed" and "attention" ... that's what you've gotta change.