@Thomas,
Like Cy, I have implied that the word "reality" becomes equivalent to a religious position when it refers to anything
specific beyond human experience. Nothing can be said about such "reality" that adds to our understanding of our interaction with what we call the world. Now obviously experiences appear to differ, and even as an atheist I can
understand those who claim "knowledge of the reality of God". To me this implies that see themselves interacting with a world ordained by a divinity. Their co-believers reinforce that experience with appropriate contextual language. Such an interpretation of "reality" has nothing to do with ontology; it is about "what works for them" . Those who would claim that "reality" can ever be an "experience free zone" are in my opinion, paying the price of a set of parochial vested interests.
And BTW the phrase "doing English" is what happened at school according to a time-table. Philosophy of language in general, and semantic analysis in particular, is an entirely different ball game ,the recent philosophical epitome of which was
die Kehre (the turn) first associated with Wittgenstein and Heidegger. With the advent of psychology
Die Kehre constituted a displacement of focus the subject matter of philosophy from "thought" to "language". The Lee-Whorf citation from G.H. above indicates the assumed linkage between the two.
You complain about "lack of coherence" of what I and some other posters are saying,but unless you have at least a passing knowledge of recent philosophical developments such as those described above, you will be unaware that you are wandering in foreign territory without a compass.