mmattin1 wrote:...but I hit walls when I am told that this is just wrong with no reason of why....
I sympathize with your desire to understand, however, I have not, as you say, simply stated that you are wrong with no explanation of why. In almost every case, I have asked questions, designed to obtain clarification, which you have chosen to ignore, rather than answer. These questions were designed to guide your inquiries into a form in which they could be addressed. You are correct when you say that what you are doing is closer to thinking about brain surgery than performing it, but an even closer parallel would be making incorrect assertions about brain surgery, using medical terms incorrectly, the definition of which is widely available, and asking questions to which it is very difficult to attach a meaning. For example, in one case you say, "If this holds true for time travel then a new future would have to begin at that moment." You are here making an assertion about physics with which you are wholly unfamiliar. One shouldn't make assertions about rather complicated topics one is unfamiliar with. Most of us who have taken the time to slowly learn what is known on these subjects, are not tremendously sympathetic to people who begin to make pronouncements about them without first studying them.
This forum is a good place to raise the issues you are raising, and you should probably continue to do so if you are curious, but why can you not buy a high school Physics book and learn about the subject that you are apparently so curious about? Not to say that you are not welcome to raise your questions for discussion, but the actual body of knowledge which you are referring to is available in libraries and book stores to be examined by anyone. My response here is coming out sounding less nice than I want it to, for which I am sorry, but, in fact, I am interested in the topic you are discussing, and have strong opinions about its study. I am not suggesting you not ask these questions. To my way of thinking, I am responding to your questions.