Here is a website that has a self-study course for people to transition (or help others transition) into death.
Anubisist Training is very interesting -- especially the cross-cultural similarities.* I've heard of a few people who have hired these transition people to ease the death of their loved ones. How much of the basis for the Anubis belief is true... who knows?
And here, for a very different view, is how the Catholic Encyclopedia describes the
preparations for death.
The small Burke Museum in Seattle had a show last October that showcased the ritual beliefs regarding death of several cultures. It is no longer on their website but here is a description:
Reverent Remembrance
*Here is one of those odd similarities. Anubis is portrayed as a jackal-headed god who guides the dead in the underworld. The Aztecs believed that a dog acted as a guide for the dead in the underworld.
Quote:In any case, to go to Mictlan "the ninth and deepest new stratum of the unknown" (Matos Moctezuma 1971: 89) it was essential to undertake a long road full of perils and menaces, through the eight underworld levels prior to Mictlan's final abode. The soul had to pass between two clashing mountains, to run the gauntlet of a great snake and huge lizard, to traverse eight deserts and eight hills, and to encounter a wind full of stone knives. Finally, but not until the end of four years, the soul reached the great river which must be crossed by swimming. The aid of a red dog was necessary for this final stage and a dog of this colour was reared in the house and slain at the funeral by thrusting an arrow down its throat. The body was placed by the side of the defunct, with a cotton string around its neck for guidance purposes. "The dog was to perform the part of Charon, and carry the king on his back across the deep stream called Chicunanhuapan ?'nine waters', a name which points to the nine heavens of the Mexicans" (Bancroft, 1883: 605).
from:
Mortuary Practices Among the Aztec