@roger,
He wants to see the place himself.
I'm serving as his Care Manager as I've worked in nursing homes.
He's not like this because of the purpose of the trip. I'm leaning toward he lives in an area that's so rush rush rush he's forgotten how to let things just happen.
For instance, taking the simple process of buying a ticket, and calling more than 5 times now to basically say "Still wanted to make sure that the ticket you said you bought, has been bought."
I'll be able to gage his state of mind better when we're together.