And, when it comes to telling the truth about what we like - one of the variables is the grown-up-ness of the man.
The men I admire are the ones who give, and receive honesty.
Sadly, experience tells us that honesty can be a destroyer.
I was extremely honest in my youth - until I had day's long conniptions to deal with when I was honest about the enjoyability of my first coitus - which was about what I expected, and no biggie - and in subsequent experience I learned to be cautious.
I am old and ugly enough now not to have patience for partners who require dishonest cosseting if they are not to pout for weeks - but, Wilso, please do not crap on women alone for reluctance to be very frank. We learn to be very careful. Sheeesh.
dlowan wrote:I have had partners with small penises. It never bothered them or me. Ditto with partners with big ones. It's all relative.
All kidding aside, I can attest to what dlowan is saying here.
At best, my penis is no more than 9 to 9 1/2 inches long when erect -- and so thin that, without much trouble, I could probably get it into a toilet paper center tube.
But do I let that bother me?
Not for a second.
Wilso wrote:dlowan wrote:
Does size matter in vaginas? Well? Out with it!
YES.
Well then, there's your answer. Some vaginas and some penises are happier together.
Why all the whining?
Do women brag about the size of their vaginas and talk about them among themselves?
"Hot Damn Shirley, I ain't gay or nuthin' but that thing is huge!"
"Yep Louise, I'm blessed all right. It's a wonder my guts don't fall right out on the floor".
LOL! Er, I believe small is better.......
Vagina size isn't an issue with women. Breast size is an issue with women.
I think breast size issues are more analogous to penis size issues than vagina size issues.
It's about a person's external physical endowments.
My point was not whether size counts for women, but the fact that there is so much posturing between guys. Why try to brag about what you have to someone who you will never use it with anyhow? (i.e. one guy bragging to another) Why is penis size such a big deal between heterosexual men? (Not to say it isn't the same with homosexual men, but I'm trying to make a point here.
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caprice wrote:My point was not whether size counts for women, but the fact that there is so much posturing between guys. Why try to brag about what you have to someone who you will never use it with anyhow? (i.e. one guy bragging to another) Why is penis size such a big deal between heterosexual men? (Not to say it isn't the same with homosexual men, but I'm trying to make a point here.
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I don't know where women get this crap from. Men DO NOT constantly brag about their size, or their sexual conquests. In my entire life, I've only ever met one guy who seemed intent on bragging, and most of us found him boring. This is the most annoying of all the urban legends.
Wilso
Blame it on the media!
Perhaps it is different down under.
things like this
http://www.extagencapsules.com/index.php4
do they work? do they honor the guarantee?
Uh, no.
I mean, who knows, they might really give you your money back.
But it ain't gonna work.
People develop business plans around the assumption that some percentage of people who buy something with a money-back guarantee do NOT, in fact, ask for their money back. So I can put some tap water in a plastic baggie, make a really convincing claim that it is the elixir of everlasting youth, make the buyer pay shipping and handling (nonrefundable), charge $25 a baggie, and offer a money-back guarantee. If I sell a thousand, and 75% of them ask for their money back (although how would they prove it didn't work... hmm... this could be a nice scam), I would still have made 250 X $25 = $6,250, for tap water and baggies.
See how that works?
Check this out, curled-lippery:
http://my.webmd.com/content/article/41/1685_50002.htm?lastselectedguid={5FE84E90-BC77-4056-A91C-9531713CA348}
Quote:No natural pill has any ability whatsoever to enhance penile size. Even Viagra does nothing to permanently affect penile size.
-snip- (poor choice of words?)
Quote:Misconception #1: The Small Penis
Men in general have a distorted view of what's normal for penile size. The fact is, "average" was not defined until recently. A study published in the September 1996 Journal of Urology concluded that average flaccid penile length was 8.8 cm (3 1/2 inches), and average erect length was 12.8 cm (5 inches). Also, according to many women?s magazine surveys, "size doesn't matter." But many men remain fixated on the ideal of the 8- to 10-inch penis.
Some men don't even realize what they have. For example, obese men develop a suprapubic fat pad that conceals the penis, making it look shorter. Pressing firmly on this fatty tissue reveals the true penile length. I often explain this to patients, but a man who is convinced his penis is too small is hard to convince otherwise.
Occasionally a perception of inadequate penile length is a manifestation of underlying feelings of inadequacy in general. In these instances, psychological counseling may prove helpful.
Check with your local Better Business Bureau which, I'll wager, has never heard of this company.
These are scams, virtually 100% of the time.
If you're gojng to try to alter your body in any fashion, talk to your doctor first. He or she will give you your options - surgery, Viagra and/or getting older (e. g. if you're still growing, that is. If you're over 20 or so, forget that option). And that's it. Sorry, but no, none of this stuff works, and these are very likely fly-by-night operations, so your BBB will be VERY interested.
I tell you, I took some of them there penis pills, and after only 60 short days, I was hung like a farm animal...
A chicken.
But yea, they're scams, don't waste your money. You'd probably have a hard time getting your money back anyway, even if they promise it. Most of those companies last a few months, make fast cash before people pick up on them. If they worked, don't you think you'd hear about more people taking them?
Slappy Doo Hoo wrote:You'd probably have a hard time getting your money back anyway, even if they promise it.
And suing them won't help. As I always say:
"You can put it in the hands of your attorney, but it won't stand up in court!".
Mr Stillwater wrote:Slappy Doo Hoo wrote:You'd probably have a hard time getting your money back anyway, even if they promise it.
And suing them won't help. As I always say:
"You can put it in the hands of your attorney, but it won't stand up in court!".
Oh, you devil you!
Hey...
...question for the guys posting here:
Any of you besides me grow up with the nickname "Snake?"
I grew up with the nickname: "Untie the knot and give me some more rope." The women called me that in the throes of passion.
"Roll out more hose, you ain't nowhere near the fire"
dlowan wrote:Sigh, hohum - if size matters.
No matter what we say, they won't be happy!!!! Because we are INDIVIDUALS!!!!!!! We have different bodies, preferences, and so on.
There isn't AN answer, for Chrissake.
Does size matter in vaginas? Well? Out with it!Perhaps the answer is "It depends"? Huh? Perhaps on the size of the penis? perhaps on the sexual response of the individual woman? here is a clue - EVERYONE IS DIFFERENT. There are as many answers as there are people to answer. Size seems to matter to some, not to others.
Within normal limits, I don't think it does. Lots of women (like me, usually) do not come from coitus anyway - we come from other methods.
Actually, Wilso - I am sick of your hostility and snide comments. Perhaps if you actually discussed this with your intimate partners, you might get somewhere?
Oh, and we women are actually pretty mindful of the extremely sensitive nature of this for men - so we do not go about making fiats about it generally.
Maybe if the men who keep whining about this did some growing up?
I have had partners with small penises. It never bothered them or me. Ditto with partners with big ones. It's all relative.
Are you asking whether there is a difference between the vagina of a 15 year old virgin and that of a 95 year old grandmother who had 7-10 children?
No.
I was having a tantrum because of Wilso's prior comment, and pointing out that size of vagina and its effect on men's sexual pleasure might be a subject which men handled with some sensitivity and reluctance to shoot their mouths off, as well as there being the relativities which I pointed out exist for women.
