@The Pentacle Queen,
I'd like to know how this works out for you also.
When you see items like that on ebay, it seems most of the time it says "Private Listing"
I don't know what that means exactly, do you?
I do know when you have something up for sale, people will email you with questions, like "Could you tell me the dimensions of that handbag?" You can respond to only them, or let the answer be seen by all, if you think that would be helpful to anyone bidding.
I can just imagine the type of email questions you would get for fetish items.