I's filosophizin' Amelia. Let me put it in a different way....we'll switch the word "enjoy" for terms like "going to work every day to a boss you hate", "making sacrifices", "constantly falling for the wrong people", "complaining to all your friends about your crappy life", you know, that sort of thing. It seems that some sort of suffering is common to the entire human race. I never said anything about how the degree of suffering changes depending on where you are on the globe. I'm also not saying that it's a bad thing either. Suffering is a learning process, if you choose to accept it as that. Romance and lust....lovely stuff
The French call an orgasm 'Le Petit Mort', 'The Little Death', pleasure, pain, suffering, all at once. Just food for thought.