@spendius,
spendius wrote:The example is too stark.
I don't think I would assert that "proof" exists for that idea on such a basis.
I challenge the concept that it is proper
on ANY BASIS
to insist upon issuing
unsolicited evaluations of Intellectual ability,
and
ESPECIALLY NOT on the basis of whether the poster in question
AGREES with u, or not.
FIGURATIVELY SPEAKING:
It is as if we all have pistols (the
Ignore Button) for our personal defense in A2K.
It is a fact (in the real world) that
c.80% of people shot (once) with a pistol
SURVIVE their wounds. A2K then issues its participants
nuclear ammunition,
resulting in
NO survivors of A2K pistols.
I have a very general feeling that we 'd better off
the way we are now (so to speak, with
non-nuclear ammunition).
In my humble opinion, its good to be able to
forgive someone
and to take him
OFF of Ignore, if u later choose to do so, in a magnanious spirit.
IF he has completely vanished, then he will be lost in forgetfullness forever.
In some cases, that is
GOOD, but not always.
For instance, maybe 3 years ago, give or take,
I made a joke about an event, an accident that
had befallen the farmer. My humor was not
well-received. He informed me (then) that
he had been afflicted with
nightmares
about that event; that accident had affected
him much, much more severely than I thought.
I felt terrible; I did not mean to hurt his feelings.
I only meant to kid around, in a friendly way
with him. He chose to sentence me to 30 days
on his Ignore list. Since then, we have been
on very pleasant, friendly relations -- no strain.
I believe that
flexibility shud be preserved.
I don't think that the
ONLY option for a bad word
shud necessarily be as
DRASTIC, final and permanent
as what now is being contemplated.
Having said that, I wanna acknowledge
that of all the fora in which I post, A2K
is the most convenient and offers
the most comfortable posting environment.
I don't know of any other website
that rises to the level of A2K
in terms of features available
and being what amounts to a
relaxed, cozy, secure cyber-home.
For that, Robert & Jespah have my
gratitude.
( Thay
don 't even charge us for it. )
David