@saab,
By the way we are supposed to respect other people´s feelings and ideas.
I don´t smoke in other people´s home.
I don´t ask for meat when visiting a vegetarian. I don´t even tell I don´t like the vegetarian food.
I don´t expect pork meat when visiting a Muslim or Jew.
I don´t expect alcohol in a family which is against alcohol.
The list is endless, but as soon as it comes to religion people think they can walk into the church and just demand what they want.
When it comes to religion we seem to not to have to respect feelings and traditions as all.
Chances has gone on in religion for centuries, but it comes slowly and it will come.