What makes a good wife?

@djjd62,

quote: but why can't he be the husband you deserve, a marriage isn't one side gives and the other takes...

You had asked me a great question. My answer is:

He has been a husband that I deserve after I changed aggressive attitude.

You are right, it's really both sides work.

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Quote:

ARTIST: Jimmy Soul
TITLE: If You Wanna Be Happy
Lyrics and Chords

{Refrain}
If you wanna be happy for the rest of your life
Never make a pretty woman your wife
So from my personal point of view
Get an ugly girl to marry you

/ C D / Bm Em / C D / D7 G /

{Refrain}

A pretty woman makes her husband look small
And very often causes his downfall
As soon as he marries her, then she starts
Doin' the things that will break his heart

/ G - / D G / G - / D G /

But if you make an ugly woman your wife
You'll be happy for the rest of your life
An ugly woman cooks your meals on time
An she'll always give you peace of mind

{Refrain}

Don't let your friends say you have no taste
Go ahead and marry anyway
Though her face is ugly and her eyes don't match
Take it from me, she's a better catch

{Refrain}

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@sozobe,

If you never touch fire and I told you, be careful, the fire is hot and you could get burned. You won't see what I mean until you touch that fire yourself.

So, if you don't have a husband, you won't understand why some women can't leave their husbands after finding out their husbands' cheating and why they (those dumb wives, (for example, me), still love their husbands)

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@djjd62,

Can I ask? are you married?

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@dumbwife,

Hmm...

I understand why some women don't want to leave their husbands after finding out about cheating, even though that's not something I've experienced myself.

I disagree that keeping a husband, no matter what it requires from you, is a healthy goal, however. Just in general. You seem to have done something that is working out for you, now anyway (I'm curious about whether you can keep this up long-term, but that's another story).

If a guy is a jerk and a cheater and requires THAT much subjugation of your personality and general bending over backwards to appease him, I think that in general the cheated-upon wife is better off without him.

However I'm not saying that cheating should always instantly terminate a relationship. I know people who have gotten through it in a healthy way. Usually with a lot of effort from both the cheater and the cheated-upon.

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@dumbwife,

I'm really curious about what you think.

Whether I'm married, and what that means about me.

I ask because you seem to think that being single is something to be avoided at all costs.

edit: ooops, you asked djjd, not me. I'll leave it though.

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@Setanta,

In the past, I was really insecure and having nightmares. I would question my husband if he's fooling around again everyday.

Luckily, I haven't had that dumbshit insecurity for 2 years. My husband everyday rushes home to hug me, kiss me. He doesn't even touch his phone to sms or coumputer to chat.

Why did you think I'm insecure?

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@dumbwife,

nope, after a few long term relationships, i realized i wasn't married marriage material (didn't want kids, prefer my own company, get bored too easily)

i cheated in a relationship, and i don't know if the woman knew or not, but i realized it wasn't a great situation for either of us and ended the cheating and the relationship, so you see rather than hope for a dumb women, i was a smart man who realized that maybe i was better off not in relationships

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@sozobe,

I know what you mean and I agree with your views towards healthy relationship.

Quote: I'm curious about whether you can keep this up long-term.

Maybe you think I'm very painful faking myself with a mask in front of my husband only to make him happy?

Firstly, I was a bad-tempered wife. He's instead a very polite person. Never shout to me a F word but I had.

I am happy that I have improved my bad personalities/attitudes. I'm a better person now and I should thank him.

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@dumbwife,

Because of your "dumb wife" attitude. Nothing in your response convinces me that you are not insecure.

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@dumbwife,

dumbwife wrote:

So, if you don't have a husband, you won't understand <whatever>

I'm not a chicken, but I can still identify an egg.

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@djjd62,

It's possible that you haven't met your "life girl". She's the magic woman that you want to settle down with and you want to spend your the rest of your life with.

You will meet her one day. Smile

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@Setanta,

I respect how you think and yes I have "dumb wife" attitude.

I can still write many dumb wife stuffs and you would probably vomit blood? HAHAHA

Maybe you're right, maybe I'm not 100% secure? I will figure out and tell you again. Smile

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@ehBeth,

Thanks for your comments! Smile

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Beautiful, big boobs, lots of money, low self esteem and an incurable disease. No pre nups.

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@dumbwife,

dumbwife wrote:

I can still write many dumb wife stuffs and you would probably vomit blood? HAHAHA

Don't overrate your importance.

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@blueveinedthrobber,

you forgot only child and orphan, so you don't have to put up with in-laws Razz

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How come a suggested related topic for this thread is "Happy Anniversary Squinney"...???? I'm not a dumb wife, nor do I have an incurable disease.

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Hell no! I don't suggest a wife should be low self esteem to win back her husband.
My meaning is to be a better person/wife, if you're a terrible one like me. My husband looked for affairs because I was a bad person.
If you're a good person/wife but you husband dumbshit cheating on you, then it's another topic.

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