@Arjuna,
Your claim is stated in a very, nice way, for a lack of words.
I really like it and perhaps some of the most happiest people on the world cater some recapitulated form of your post.
But is this something you believe in or just something you read in a book that just made sense to you so you honor?
Because I feel as if the question of "is reality meaningless" is still unanswered. Let me try to clarify...
You're agreeing with reality is meaningless, but you're adding on how to live in this world, by not "doing whatever you want", but also not "doing what you're 'supposed' to do" either (not bound by rules, traditions, rituals, dogma, pedagogy). ...So you shared with us a principle of how one can live life. ...but what about the underlying statement of "reality is meaningless"? I feel as if if this question is not answered with a no (as in, reality is not meaningless), it is absurd to do anything else, even applying this principle...
Once this question is in your mind, can we escape from it?
Or are you suggesting that we don't have to "escape" from it, but rather accept it, that our life (or this universe) somewhat, somewhere, somehow, has some level of "meaning" whatever that may be. (I suppose it is subjective to individual to determine what their purpose to life is...) but again, we return that whatever "meaning" they give is fabricated...
hrm, i seem to be ranbling with no thesis, argument or conclusion.
feel free to butcher this post -_-...
clearly i have no idea what this post is about, nor any grasp on "reality" and stuff like that... like life, and ..ya...