@cicerone imposter,
If my arguments are not perfect don't be surprised, because I'm not. But one promise of a2k is that we can communally discuss ideas and via the process learn something new, or become more informed. That said I don't plan on resorting to the all too prevalent disparaging comments of some. These comments only serve to separate and never to bring together.
But regardless of the promise made by a2k and the sharing of knowledge some people are close minded and refuse to be open to new ideas. If that is the case with anyone on here then I refuse to waste my time replying. I'm willing to add my thoughts and understanding to the mix, but not going to get into an overly emotional confrontation that is bound to go no where. Remember the quote none is so blind as he who will not see. That is what I live by.
To respond to your comment that there is a lot of information out there I agree, and I also say there is a lot of bias and half-truths (you noted this when you brought up the Catholic Church, and so you're aware of what I'm saying). When so much material has been tainted by bias the only way to ferret out Truth is by honest research and study going deeper than a cursory reading of pop material or mass media.
As for failing to answer your question, I apologize and admit that I don't have all the answers.
As far as ridiculous, well that goes without saying for all of us, because we're all ridiculous to those who assume they know the truth and that we don't.