Reply to mimidamnit:
You Quoted Me : "It is not possible to reverse victimhood status, even with a time machine."
This is a 100% correct Forbidden Truth.
"i have to disagree with you here.."
You dont have to, per se. You just cannot see what I mean.
"assuming im correct in your use of the term victimhood..."
Do not assume. It leads to reasoning errors.
"carrying about you a victim-mentality.."
As do you. There is no choice. However, that is not to say that the victim-creation of society may not stop becoming victimised. Even someone who lives a life of perfect bliss is still a tortured victim-creation of society. It does not matter what changes are made in life. Victimhood-status is carried for life. The past cannot be changed by the future, regardless of what that future might be.
"is not healthy.. it's destructive"
Embracement of victim-hood status is both healthy and Superior. Rejecting of the Truth that you are not a victim of society is a false and damaging lie.
I dont say you do this, because there seems some confusion about what a victim of society actually is and entails on your part. I cannot judge you. But then, maybe you cannot judge you, either, because you dont seem to know the Forbidden Truth.
Be aware that physical and sexual child-abuse is only one of the many types of child-abuses faucilitated by society. Take Jeffrey Dahmer. He is the victim of societies destruction of the natural self-love all children are born with. Sure, Jeff was the victim in many, many other ways, but be aware that less than 99.99999% of humans can defend against the attacks of society on thier natural ability to recognise and experiance the Truth.
"and it will be of no benefit to you"
Incorrect. Truth is of greater benefit to Me than anything else.
"or your family."
The family unit structure is invalid. Why, anyway, would I care about any "family" that I might have?
"....ever. of course i still carry residual anger and resentment for the crimes committed against me as a child and a teen.."
A) Then you should be able to see that you are a victim of society. Victim-hood is ongoing for life. That does not mean you have to continue to seriously suffer to be a victim. You are your past, and you are a tortured victim-creation of society. There is nothing wrong with being angry...as long as you direct it outward, back at society.
B) Are you aware that society foistered those experiances upon you?
"but i strongly believe that if you keep it in your head that you're a victim.. "
You are a victim of society no matter what you do. Or I o, for that matter.
"you will behave like one.. i know many people.. myself included.. that overcame.. "
You cannot overcome tortured victim creation of society status. That is the Forbidden Truth.
"as rampant as child abuse is.. there is no way to prove that it occurs as often as we might want to believe.."
Every single child that is born into human society IS abused. The question is just the extent and effect of that abuse. This can easily be proven via the Forbidden Truth.
"being victims ourselves.. eventually you're going to have to let it go."
You cannot "let it go". Victimhood status is for a life-time. But look at Victim Carl Williams, from My website. He wears his status like a "badge of honor".
"the anger i mean."
There is nothing wrong with anger, as long as you direct it outwards. I suggest that you are supressing your anger. I do not know this for sure, but that is the impression I am getting.
"you cant live your life fully if you are still bound by your past."
You must do as your True Reality dictates. You cannot escape the victimhood of your past. That is not possible.
"rather than blaming society for crimes that you committed.. or for crimes committed against you.."
The Forbidden Truth dictates that society is and was 100% responsible for every single action of it's citizen-slaves. You have provided no evidence nor argument to the contrary, either.
" be the one that overcame.."
If I did the impossible, then I would indeed be the "one". The only one.
" the one that shiit in the faces of the people who tortured you.."
Society tortured Me. By embracing the Forbidden Truth, I walk the one path that does what you say.
"and do better than they assumed you could.. be a success in your own right. "
You betray here what a victim of society you are. Your thinking has obviously been tragically and malevolently warped by society. Success is relative to the True reflection of your own unique True Reality.
Society tries to define concrete terms of "success", in order to get you to work harder as a slave to society. Oftentimes, people feel "inadequate" for not meeting these false standards. This is just another example of one of the ways society victimises you.
"and when ?? said.. "i see this at work everyday".. he didnt mean in the workplace.. he meant that blaming everyone else for your situation or unhappiness is at work ever day"
It doesn't matter. The actual locations of individual citizen-slaves mates not one iota of difference to the fact they are tortured victim-creations of society. Do not presume that these people ave any Truth-based complaint. Less than 99.99999% of humans can so much recognise the Truth when they see it, like I do.
"victimhood.. is merely a state of mind.. one that you are very capable of changing.."
No, victimhood status is foistered upon tortured victim-creations of society for life. Nobody has ever changed that fact, nobody ever will. Even the great Seer of Forbidden Truth Charles Manson cannot change that.
" i'm not stuck in victimhood.."
Yes you are.
"and i can guarantee my situation was pretty f*king awful."
I believe you. As a child you were subjected to child abuse via the family unit structure, and the various institutions of society. That is thier primary design purpose. Understand that one of these abuses was the legal and societally-sponsered destruction of your sanity (i.e. the ability to recognise and live a life based on Truth).