@Mame,
Mame wrote:Nobody says "To whom were you speaking?" or "With whom did you go?" and it would sound archaic,
I 'm an archaic kind of guy.
Mame wrote:if not laughable, if they did.
Some things we just have to let go and that would be my pick.
Yeah; that 's what I usually
DO. I 'm usually big on minding my own business.
Sometimes, its heartbreaking, tho; e.g. there was an 18 year old lad who gave a resplendently brilliant presentation
at a Mensa Regional Gathering some years ago qua Astrophysics; it was a beauty to behold.
His personality was one of pervasive n expansive ebullience; he was the son of a schoolteacher
and his enthusiasm for education and cultivating the minds of the young to bring their optimal potential to fruition
knew no bounds. He was a talented mathematician. He said that he tawt younger students in hi school, tutored them,
after classtime. He expressed intentions teaching professionally, on a full time basis.
He continually fell into the grammatical errors which we 've discussed here. I felt moven to bring these errors to his attention,
but the topic was Astrophysics not grammar and truly: I did not have the heart to say anything to demoralize his spirit.
I kept my mouth shut, but I thawt that his speech patterns will subconsciously affect his students.
As we observed, grammar purveys logic, which is mathematically accurate. Being a competent mathematician
is inconsistent with being a poor logician = a poor grammarian,
but as u 've said: "Some things we just have to let go".
David