@Elmud,
Elmud;70974 wrote:Short thread here. I cannot stand this phrase. Whatever happened to a thing called courtship? Does that not exist anymore? Hooking up. Just doesn't sound right to me.
Hi Elmud.
Isn't 'courtship', after all, a dishonesty? A "this is me (but on my 'best' behavior), come buy it", when it really isn't 'me'? Generally for the purpose of, ultimately, 'hooking up'? What a horror having to 'get married' (and all it entails) just to have some sex? All the dishonesty and gameplaying involved? Perhaps food for another thread?
Some years ago, one of my kids came home from school with a spelling correction on his paper (back when they weren't too lazy to correct spelling resulting in what one often sees here...). He wrote 'socks', in reference to those foot snoods worn under the shoes, and the teacher 'corrected' him that the current spelling is "sox"! Next day, of course, i was in school asking for an explanation. She hauled out a new dictionary and, lo and behold, did I learn a great lesson. Both spellings were correct!
Language is a 'living' morphing evolving creature, and if we 'attach' to the comfort of what we learned and comfortably have used year after year, eventually, we either (uncomfortably) accept (relinquish our attachments) the changes, or ossify (petrify).
I vainly looked down my nose at the advertising community defining our language with trite sound-bytes and cute bumperstickerish phrases, but it is all part of the beast.
Hence the meaning of Oliver Wendel Holmes's;
"A word is not a crystal, transparent and unchanged; it is the skin of a living thought and may vary greatly in color and content according to the circumstances and time in which it is used."
Times change, always uncomfortable, but often a 'positive' (evolutionary) thing results.
I understand what you are saying here, and I hear my own voice, but, if we don't, like the willow, bend with the weight, we will, like the mighty oak, break under it!
Peace