@Zetherin,
I was thinking about my kids Zeth. Thinking about when they were toddlers. So trusting. So open to everyone and everything. I have three little girls. I remember, they had this quality of innocence about them. They accepted things as they seemed to be.
So, when I see one of them, get cheated and exploited, and I see them start to develop a hardness towards people and things, becoming jaded, they have lost something that they may never regain again. That quality of innocence. That ability to trust.
This is the hard part of being a parent. Knowing that your children, sooner or later, will have to adapt to a world where things are not always as they seem. and they lose their quality of innocence. They have to grow up. And, sometimes its hard.
On a positive note, sometimes our first impressions are wrong, and we find out that things every now and then are better than they seem. Anyway, the point was that more than not, we cannot take things at face value anymore.